Hi, my girl friend has lupus and has had since four years old.I am really struggling to understand the condition. She mentioned to me that she has been struggling recently and thinks she might be having a flare up. I have noticed she has been very distant toward me and not herself around me but she still tells me she loves me. I don't know if this is part of LUPUS.
I have and continue to be really supportive of her but it feels like that support and love gets thrown back at me. I just can't seem to do anything right to make it better for her. This is the first time I have met someone with LUPUS and I just want to understand whether this is part of LUPUS and what I can do about it.