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Sorry not on for a while. I had to rush my husband into hospital yesterday. We were told that his cancer has spread all over his abdominal organs. The damage is too much . He is starting chemotherapy tomorrow but this is just as a palliative measure. Once again thank you everyone for your support

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PMRpro

I'm so sorry. Hugs - that is all I can offer. xxxxxxxxxx

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honeybug

Dearest Josiew

🥀💗🥀💗🥀💗🥀💗🥀

I’m so very sorry to hear about this devastating news.

My heart ♥️ goes out to you both. Please know that I’m here for you dear.

Gentle gentle hugs 🤗 love 💗 kisses 😘 and prayers 🙏.

🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸🌿🌸

With love EvaJo

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whisperit

So sorry to hear that, Josieswolf. Wishing you both the best. Do keep posting if you feel it might help at all. I'm sure lots of us here will be thinking of you anyway xxxx

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Lisalou19

Sorry to read your post this evening. I can not imagine what you must be feeling right now.

I can’t offer anything useful to you right now, but please know that many of us are here for you and thinking of you.

Sending love to you and your family xxx

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panda2

That is absolutely devastating, josieswolf. I cannot help but feel the helplessness and sheer pain of it all from the position you are in. For what this is worth, people like you, with your enormous life load, get mentioned at my dinner table.

Much strength to you.

Panda x

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Barnclown

Sending you, your husband and all those dear to you my love josiewolf...remember: this safe haven is here for you 24/7...XOXOXO

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pmrkitty

Oh Josie, I'm so sorry. I have been where you are and my prayers are going out for you both. There are no words, just know we are here. Love and big hugs...Kitty

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honeybug in reply to pmrkitty

xxx

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Naz2005

so sorry to hear of the bad news sending you both lots of love & hugs your in my prays may your hubby be blessed with long healthy life amen know exactly what your goin through your in my thoughts xxx

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HazelW

So so sorry for you both. Make the most of your time together & try to stay strong. I lost my lovely husband almost 2 years ago so I know what you're going through. Thinking of you both xx

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honeybug in reply to HazelW

xxx

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Lily77

Dear Josieswolf, sending you much love and my most gentle and supportive thoughts, huge hugs, Lily

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Lili18

Hi josieswolf,

I am so sorry. I can only imagine what you both must be feeling now.

Sending you hugs and prayers

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eekt

So sorry Josieswolf..hope you can still make precious memories to hold on to forever xxx

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cathie

Hugs xxx

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Rienij70

Sorry to hear that. Best wishes to your husband and you. Big hugs Rienij

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Krazykat26

Am so sorry to hear such sad news Josieswolf..here have one of my spoons 🥄🥄 the other ones for your hubby..take care n be as strong as u can. We're here for u xx

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JanW

So very sorry to hear that stay strong and take care.

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Lupiknits

I’m so sorry to hear this. I can only send my thoughts to you and yours, with a hug x

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Loopyloo43

Hi am so sorry to read your news it must be a very difficult time sending hugs to you and know you are in my thoughts ❤️❤️

So sorry to hear that. I know it will be difficult but just try to get as much good nutrition into your hubby as possible. In whatever form you can. Willpower can do amazing things sometimes, and people have turned around the most outrageous odds.

You all need to be eating well at the moment to help combat all the stress. Where there is life there is hope. Keep positive. I hope you see a silver lining.

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Bud1124

So sorry to be reading your sad news. I hope you gave got support to help comfort you both. Hugs xx

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Horsewhisper

So sorry to read of your desperately sad news. I hope your husband is as comfortable as he can be and that there are other special people taking care of you too. Thoughts and prayers with you at this time xx

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Paloma25

Dear Josie, please take good care of yourself and accept whatever help you are offered. When my husband was in a similar situation, many people offered help but I was too overwhelmed to know what to do. Finally I assigned two help-organizers -- one for work and one for neighbors, and told them the evening meal was hardest for me. They organized dinner rotations, so we had a hot meal arrive every night. We also felt surrounded by people's affection. They said it helped them to feel there was something they could do in this heartbreaking situation. As others have said, we are here for you, too. I wish I could bring you dinner.

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Josieswolf in reply to Paloma25

Thank you so much

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dees2201

There are so so many kind and helpfull people on this site, they have real empathy, so glad i joined x

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