Would be great to hear from men with Lupus or partners of men with Lupus. My husband and I are considering having children and this means him changing medication from Mycophenolate.
He was only diagnosed last year in April after a month in hospital but now down to 2mg pred and no flares. Such a dilemma knowing whether it's the right thing to do. Will azathioprine cause him any problems? He places a lot of pressure on himself but fear he has suffered lasting nerve damage as a result of the huge flare he had as well as MASS syndrome. Also don't want his stability to change.
I would like to try for a family and not getting any younger but my husbands health comes first.
Has anyone got any tips, advice or guidance?
Thank you x
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Hi. It sure I can offer much advice. I am male with a partner and 3 foster children. I am currently on azathioprine amongst other things. Waiting to start on mycophenolate (due to additional autoimmune conditions) before onset I worked full time and my partner cared for the children. Following onset I now just work part time early mornings and late evenings and my partner works full time over 4 days so we can balance things out. Is it tiring? Yes. Would I change it? No. You find a way to make it work. If you have any further questions please ask as I am aware there's not many men who post in these sites. For info I'm 41
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