I have managed to avoid this conversation for 5 years!
Yes no relationships no dating for 5 years
With all the encouragement/ pressure/badgering from my friends and family
Lee-Anne you’re so pretty you shouldn’t be going out on dates? Why don't you have a boyfriend? Aren’t you lonely? Don’t you want to get married and have kids?
I just didn’t feel ready and I still don’t know if I am but I probably shouldn’t wait too much longer.
I can’t get my head around how I would explain my situation to a potential suitor
One day I seem fine then I’m tired then my arm hurts then my hip hurts
Plans will be canceled now she’s not answering her phone.
I had a friend call me lazy because I canceled her and I was livid (She probably won’t make that mistake again) but I don’t know how I would handle it if was a boyfriend or potential boyfriend
Or dates…. Most nights I’m in bed by 8 pm if not earlier. I’m hardly the party girl I used to be… heels, makeup and most hair styling equipment is now out of my vocabulary
I can’t picture someone who is going to find all of this attractive
Also, I don’t have the time or patience kiss frogs or deal with some of the drama frogs come with to get to the fairy tale ending.
Honestly, guys, I have no idea where I am going with this post but I would love to hear your thoughts