Hello, my daughter is 12 and has so many symptoms and keeps getting ill that she misses a lot of high school. We don't have a diagnosis, the high school may impose the first fine , as we can't prove she is ill ! I send her to school whenever she is well enough but sometimes she just can't manage it . Our doctors are referring and we are possibly at the start of a long journey . I worry she will have lupus or fibro or another autoimmune . Has anyone been in this position ? Thanks so much for any advice . I feel like they will try to say she just trying to avoid school, when I know that is not the case. It is heartbreaking seeing her in daily pain.