Pinkdark20185 years ago

I have been bemused by the response I have had from family and friends. A mix of those who have tried to understand and those who have said oh that’s ok then, it could be worse when you, at the time have had your world thrown into disarray.

Jabb-UK5 years ago

I have surprised by the reactions of the small circle of my friends and relatives. All positive and considerate. No drawing back nor dismissive. Even people I only know slightly, have been kind and helpful.

I feel supported and very lucky.

2003UKChampion5 years ago

In the shorter term I found I was not looked on as me but the person with leukaemia. My responsibilities at work were taken away from me in case I was unable to work, it hurt.

emmieb-UK5 years ago

I feel closer to my husband who was very supportive. Friends were a mixed bag - I certainly lost some as they didn't want to know (and still don't!) but a surprise from someone who is a good work friend who texted me everyday through treatment with nice normal stuff that was going on to distract me.

UK-Sparky5 years ago

I found it better to be open with friends and family. They went through initial shock but were willing to learn more about the disease. I am retired but feel I would not have disclosed at work for fear of impact on career.

UK Sparky

JanBR5 years ago

A person who I thought was a good friend and had known for over 20 years told me not to talk about it and just be grateful I was alive. I was only telling her about an innocuous conversation with my consultant. I was really taken aback as I really hardly spoke about it.