Unexplained infertility

[Chemuu]

Unexplained infertility, financially unstable and unsupportive partner. I am so depressed

[Marmo]

Coming here for updates. How are you currently doing honey? Have you found the solution?I have turned down many baby related events over the years. hubby has gone alone sometimes.He never pushed me to go if I felt uncomfortable. We just kept communicating together and came out of this journey stronger.It wasn’t easy the hardest thing I’ve ever done. and there were many bumps along the way but we got there eventually 7 years later. I’m so glad we didn’t give up and kept going. This site also supported me through some truly awful times and so grateful for it. Never be sorry for needing to get things things off your chest, much worse bottling up. Whatever your path is, please, remember what you’re doing this for. Stay strong and brave. Maybe this link could be helpful, just have a look: biotexcom.com/a-unique-meth.... Good luck for your appointments. hope all goes well. Keeping everything your time will come soon Xx

[SerrineV in reply to Marmo]

Hi there.

There's a lot of things to say concerning infertility treatments. BUT my bottom line is that in some situations the ideal concept of any treatment protocol is not possible due to certain medical conditions. These include the age of the prospective mother, having a history of miscarriage, etc. So, from the perspective of heterosexual couples, surrogacy is a major advantage. It allows them to create a family in spite of not being able by natural means. However a huge challenging side in this is definitely high costs (If the choice of the clinic is made in haste). And, unfortunately, it may not be within the grasp of everyone. Sadly enough, but even if IP have everything in place, facts such as religious beliefs, historical background, laws, and the influence of certain family members can prevent them from entering into a surrogacy arrangement.

For same-sex couples and single parents, it is clear that surrogacy is not only a major advantage, but actually the only chance for them to become parents.. Also, another positive of surrogacy if compared to traditional adoption is that it allows intended parents to have a child who has the genes of at least one of them. With adoption, this is not possible. Finally, it should be clear that a pregnancy is not a mathematical equation and many factors can influence the process. So surrogacy pregnancy may bring somewhat more peace to heart.

If anyone is currently looking into the process, I'd highly recommend visiting BTC homepage. It offers really a huge source of information.

[SerrineV]

So sorry to hear this. In case you decide over your next treatment steps, I believe this might be useful. I myself have been through IVF before moving onto surrogacy in Ukraine. The hardest for me though was doing injections. I've always had this needle phobia. And for the first timer it could be even more. These tips helped me to ease the pain of the dreaded progesterone injections. First, warm the progesterone either to a comfortable room temperature or body temperature. You can also prepare the site of the injection using ledocaine. Then it's good to learn to relax muscles. Then the injection itself. Keep the dry skin tight and smooth. Try to insert the needle into the skin quickly. After injection’s done massage its site. This helped me. I also liked the way the nurse at our clinic tought us doing injections right. Got used to in a couple of days.

In my case, once the reality starts to sink in, surrogacy turned out to be a logical option. I would advise women who worry that health conditions may affect their pregnancy to consult with their dr about the possibility of surrogacy. By far the most difficult path to a surrogacy clinic is through infertility.

[happyfrogg]

I am sorry to know your story. Try to stay positive and find solutions that will work out for you. You might consider undergoing IVF with PGS NGS in Europe that is high quality and pocket friendly to get pregnant. Regarding your usupportive partner, I am so sorry, it' very important to know you can account on your second half. Have you considered any consulting?

[andylins]

I read a blog post lately that said that the key to getting through all of this is celebrating every little victory that you have. I’ve mentioned in my previous posts we passed DE IVF in Biotexcom, Kiev. Here are some of the keypoints to focus on if you happen considering them too.

They achieve positive results due to day by day improving techniques. Their embryologists work with fresh genetic material (eggs/sperm cryopreservation is used only at patient’s will). Such approach automatically multiplies chances for the successful fertilization. It is known and proven that quality of eggs gets worse during the freezing process leading to the failed IVF attempts. In addition to the spermogram doctors conduct sperm analysis for apoptosis. Conducting this medical test embryologist determines presence of the damaged sperm cells which prevent successful conception and can cause child’s DNA damage. In the case of cells’ poor quality, doctor prescribes appropriate medication, afterwards perform reanalysis and successfully fertilize the egg. Karyotype analysis is the part of a standard analyzes set (karyotype test shows the total number of chromosomes, the sex of the person being studied, and if there are any structural abnormalities with any of the individual chromosomes which can cause child’s diseases). Conducting programs of the egg donation and surrogate motherhood doctors calculate the ideal “window of implantation”. This is the most successful period for the embryo transfer without disturbing its structure and endometrium integrity. Starting to work with the infertile couple, their specialists use only individual approach in each case. First of all, members of the medical staff carry out detailed diagnostics of patients in order to identify clearly the seeds of the disease or reasons of the unsuccessful IVF attempts. There are no identical protocols as BTC team does not work in the traces. Because positive result of any medical program is their main goal! Embryologists use the most successful method of working with blastocysts, namely, embryo transfer on the fifth day. It greatly increases the chance of pregnancy during the in vitro fertilization programs.

I hope this might be useful for those seeking for answers.

[Marmo]

I’m sorry fertility issues are affecting your private life that much! I know this burden. But I believe this is natural while going through all sorts of possible thoughts. It is understandably difficult to go from that to making love with your partner. Naturally, infertility not only increases normal levels of stress. Thus it can put a damper on our sexuality.

Also, men and women when passing treatment do suffer the consequences of it. When it becomes imperative to have intercourse AT SPECIFIC TIMES. Making love becomes baby making! What was once an intimate moment becomes very clinical!! Going into a sterile room with a cup, under the pressure of performance, can harm even the strongest ego.

These are tough moments all we have to survive. But we hopefully keep on moving and this brings results. We faced unexplained infertility. Then switched Greek clinic where all rounds brought bfn onto Ukrainian. At BTC they studied our case to the core. They invented an effective treatment plan for us which worked out after shot#1.

Take care, lovelies, you’re rainbow’s ahead.

[Karinyaa]

All those people saying there's something wrong about using donor eggs or IVF itself, and all those monsters-in-low wanting their biological children so badly - They all mean nothing if say even a single word against my right to be a mother!

This was the story flow for us. I'm ripe age, 10 years of struggling behind. DX - endo, egg aging. Dh- low sperm count. Our last try home ended with early miscarriage, so we were finally told to move onto donor eggs. And we followed the advice coming to Ukrainian BTCclinic. We booked 5 shots program there with the guaranteed result but didn't believe any guarantees at all as no one can be sure in infertility game. At least we were assured to get our money back if it didn't work after 5 shots. Actually it took us 2 tries. 1st one was a failure, AF came 3 days earlier the testing day. We took a break to heal emotionally mainly and went on. I believe God rewards us for waiting. Whatever the situation is just keep on moving and don't give up! Wish you all the best of luck with your treatments and lots and loads of baby dust to you, lovely. And do not listen to people who don't know even the tiniest thing of this great matter. Let them be alone with their blues!