Heartbroken

[29beckie]

I was recently ready to remove myself from this amazing group, as I let you all know I was 12 weeks pregnant and excited for my first scan (which was yesterday) we had terrible news are dreams broken yet again our little baby had stopped growing at 10 weeks with no heartbeat we are both so upset and ourselves heartbroken, the midwife said this could of happened due to the lack of hormones, which I worried about none stop but was told I was low risk and I didn’t need any supplements to support the pregnancy what a load of ?#$! Know I have to wait another two weeks for an appointment to surgically remove this baby unless my body naturally misscaries I just can’t believe we are going to be back at square one again. So upset why is this happening and why won’t they give me the medication I need?

[Sylva123]

Im so, so sorry to read your post. This is such an awful loss for you and your husband.

I hope you're taking the time you need and that you're being gentle with yourself today.

With the medication - I don't know. I really don't. Have you the option of trying a different specialist? Someone to explain your fears about low hormones? Sometimes it feels like there's no one to talk to.

Sending support through the internet x

[quieturban]

I am so sorry hun. I didn’t know. Just saw this post after I messaged you back. My heart aches for you. Please don’t give up hope. You will get there. I am always here when you wanna talk. 💓

[Sayusayme]

Ohh my God

Just saw your message and I could not stop crying ,am so sorry my dear .

I know sorry is a very small word in this situation but I totally can feel your sorrow my dear.

I will pray for you dear .

Please take care of yourself and don't be so hard on yourself .

I am left with no words dear ,it's so heartbreaking ,all I can say is take care and try try try again ,don't ever ever keep up

[29beckie in reply to Sayusayme]

Thanks so much for your kind words, appreciate all the support I get from this group hopefully nature takes its course before Tuesday so for now yes I am making the most of taking it easy with my lovely husband who’s taking care of me too xx

[andylins]

Omg, I'm so sorry to read this bad news. and am offering you my supportive shoulder to cry on..Lack of words, no one deserves this heartbreak..I truly cannot understand why they ''made'' you stop taking supplements and needed meds. Nowadays the medicine makes it possible to track every other change in body to make sure the process is going well and smooth and healthy..Another thing is that there are many reasons for it to happen. Docs in our clinic say that the 1st trimester mc are usually the result of the problems with the embryo. At the same time, we all know about the importance of using meds to ''support'' the first weeks of its living in the womb..I'm sorry, honey. And I'm praying no surgery is needed, so that your body could manage naturally..at least this will help you to avoid possible damages connected with surgery..God knows the way you feel now..Since now I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, dear. we're all here for you..

[JustKnewIt]

Hi, honey. I'm extremelly sorry to hear about your fertility struggles..I cannot imagine the pain you're feeling. and the heartbreak you've been facing..I don't know whether 'time heals'' is going to work at this stage..but I hope you'll find some comforting things to distract yourself and heal well before proceeding..This is so hard even to try to find the suitable words to ease the pain..Just wanna say, I'm praying for you. Hug you gently x

[29beckie in reply to JustKnewIt]

Thank you, finding destraction in eating everything xx

[MamaVe]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss... it's indeed a grevious heartbreak but then you've got to get eventually stong and move on your fertility journey. Is it totally proven that you've had miscarried due to not being prescribed supporting medication alone? I don't think so, however, if that's the case I'd strongly recommend then you switch your clinic. I just read you've had the DNC so at least now you can look ahead. It's always better than the natural miscarrying because sometimes the leftover tissue prevents your body from getting into the natural cycle for a couple of rounds. Now possibly with just one lapse of cycle you can start on TTC after your next AF. There's really not many words that can console you for now except that heal and get on your TTC with more determination. Let me reassure you... as long as you don't give up you will find success. It's just that we are not so lucky so we take several attempts, disappointment and deal with extream heartbreak before getting there.

[cleo801]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sorry you're going through such pain. Please be kind to yourself. Take some time to grieve. I had 2 mc last year. I'm still grieving... I can't believe it actually happened... This is heartbreaking.