This website with the views, comments, questions, etc I found helpful as it reminded me that I am not the only one who has a loved one who is unique. Its hard sometimes to cope but knowing that I am not the only wife who is going through this helps the pain, the hurt and stress that goes with loving someone who is not diagnosed with Aspergers. My husband is finally opening up to me and letting me into his world but its a very slow process. I look for all the positive cases of people who have been diagnosed as asperges and are in the limelight whether its a sport person, someone famous, to show my husband its not the end of the world. We are all different but someone of us are very unique and once accepting that its the first step.