Hi, I was recently diagnosed with Aspergers (ASD the new term) at age 31. I actually found out I was partially diagnosed with it as a child in November through years of my mother hiding the diagnosis from me. I am working full time in a helpdesk role which I love doing but have problems working and socialising as a team. I can't work out when someone is being serious or just being sarcastic and have had a lot of problems dealing with new processes. Especially when dealing with a manager who has no idea how I work. They actually had to move me to a different department due to serious depression. I've been on a first written warning since last year which has now been put on hold due to occupational health getting involved. They have made lots of recommendations but I know I am not wanted back in my original role. Any advice?