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I have too share this . I was in the local shop this morning to get a envelope, I wasn’t excatly sure on the size , but bigger than regular ones . I am at the counter when a guy walks in grabbing this and that in a rush I guess . Anyway I’m asking the lady about envelope sizes.thats when I hear the guy behind me say ffs under his breath,behind me. Ok I turned around and politely said pardon me. He blanks me.ok I go back to the counter and I tell the lady I shall go look for a bigger envelope. I find one straight away. Guess who is in front of me . That guy . I see a opportunity I take it .

For f**k sake under my breath. Nothing

This time I say it louder ffs . He turns around I blank him .

The point of this ramble is people are horrible

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cat3

I find, more & more nowadays, that most people are utterly self absorbed and have no concern for anything outside their own personal 'bubble'. Get in their way when they're on a mission (mostly to nowhere that important) at your peril ! Whatever happened to engaging with others in a considerate manner and 'seeing' beyond one's own interests.

This was never so apparent to me as it was last week when my sister-in-law & I were shopping for Xmas presents and spotted a beautiful, solitary little bird scratting around on the ground looking for tit-bits. It was so exotic and quite tame, so I took a photo of it to show to my pal, a bird enthusiast.

Everyone else, without exception, walked past ; some almost kicking it out of their way, and it was saddening to see how, within their self-important bubble, no one had a few seconds to spare to appreciate a little bit of nature in such an unlikely place !

It's coming up to the 'Season of goodwill to others' but what we mostly see is self-centredness and ignorance.

……………………..Phew ! Rant complete. 🙄 Take care Pat, love Cat x

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swedishblue in reply to cat3

Ditto! We are a pair. I would have honed in on that bird too. So many scratching around for food in winter and we selfish humans should be doing more for them. I don't shop at this time of year unless I'm with someone. I increase my time away from the masses, immersed in nature, walking dogs and noticing birds and wildlife. It's the perfect panacea for coping at christmas.

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Hello you, I totally agree! 😀 xx

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magdolna in reply to cat3

Cat good manners seem to be a disappearing value. I find myself saying that the world is going to hell in hand cart.

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magdolna

Don't worry about others behaviour, just be the polite chilled one in these sorts of moments. Believe me he will come a cropper because of it. You got a BI now that is total poo so nothing is as bad as that and some twit is of no significance 😁

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Cj-195

Good for you. I agree with you. 👍👍😂

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sealiphone

I try and be nice at least once a day, letting some one move up the queue at Aldi if they have a light shopping load. Not much but if feels good when they smile and say "Thank you", karma all round for the day.

Now if someone in a queue goes off , I think letting them back before you would be a nice gesture.

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