My boyfriend and I are both 23 years old, we been together for 5 years. My boyfriend got into a street bike accident on August 27 2018. He had suffered from a traumatic brain injury. He cracked the life side of his skull. The Drs has shown us scans of most of his left and some of his right, saying the those parts are cell brain damaged. He does open his eyes, looks around and is very curious of things. He does not walk, but can feel from his legs, he does move his toes and legs somewhat. He Left arm is able to grab and pick up things. He does have a trike, so he is unable to talk. He is not following commands either at this time. From August 27 to the October 1 He was fighting other issues in the brain. He had cerebral spinal fluid build up in his head, they had to do surgery to let it out. He needed a shunt because it wasn’t properly draining, the shunt got infection, so they took it out, and put a external one. He had to take antibiotics because the infection was in the cerebral fluid. On nov 27 they finally put back the skull to see if it would help with the drainage, so it does not build up in his head. After his surgery they did ct the next day, now he was draining to much spinal fluid. So they took the external drain out. Did a ct scan a few days after, and everything is going wonderful. I was at the hospital every day for 2 months and 2 weeks with him. I changed him, massaged him, exercised him, played music for him, did aromatherapy for him, make sure he always has cream on his but to stay away from bed sores. He is the love of my life, so I’m doing everything I can. But on oct 2 me and his mother got into a argument. She has kicked me out and banned me from seeking him. From what I last herd from his cousin, he is still not following commands. I’m worried about his care physicals and mentaly. I’m worried if he will even remember me. But I thank god, everyday for letting him be here to fight! Anyone have advice, similar relations, or even suffered from a tbi?