My daughter and grandsons are coming over today for the afternoon so i am hoping that the weather is hot and sunny so we can all go in the garden and play out there.
i am still aching but there you go we all just have to get on with it dont we . i hope you are all well love to you diddle xxxxxx
Hope your day is going well, Diddle - don't overdo it, but do enjoy it! xx
Hello Diddle, I hope you did have a good day with your daughter and grandsons today. The weather certainly brightened up here in the afternoon.
Having no children and therefore, no hope of grandchildren in my life I feel so starved of children - who I love that I might have made a mistake. The young man upstairs is separated, but he and his ex-partner have 5 children between them. I think the youngest 4 are his. They range in age from the 'big' responsible girl who is probably 7 to a toddler of around 20 months or so. I see him out in the park across the road with them and know he struggles to control them all in such a big space. I told him I wouldn't mind them using my garden while I was waiting for compensation from the local authority for the damage they did to my membrane so that the lovely pink stones can hardly been seen for weeds. I esaid there is not much extra damage the kids could do! I did say totally at your own risk as I am not insured for any harm they come to etc but if he takes me up on it, might actually ask him to sign a one line waver!
It would be lovely to see the kids from the window. Petty he wasn't a little older (nod, nod, wink, wink) but he is only 30 and actually it has to be said - not really that good looking.
Before I gave up completely, I used to look at the lonely hearts column in the local newspaper and often saw 'single dad' so I was always looking for one who was at least in his late 40s (10 years younger I can do).
Given up now but would be happy for the kids to use the garden really.
I wonder if I am being inappropriate? I am sure somebody will tell me if they think so but I know I am not the only middle aged (cross out spinster and put in) woman of experience, on the site.
Hope you are going through a good patch with your fibro diddle.
Christine xxx
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lol you make me laugh bless you no your not being inapropripriate at all
it is a shame you were not blessed with children as you would have been a lovely mum you normally find that dont you my daughter knows of a girl she is 22 and is now having her 6th baby yes 6th baby but wait for the best bit they have all got different dads !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! mmm not much you can really say is there i know when i found muyself divoced for the 1st time with a 2 year old the looks i got with no ring on my finger then i went on to remarry have another daughter and yep it all happened again so i had 2 by 2 that was bad enough her house must be interesting at the weekends 6 men turning up ppicking up there son/daughter for the day lol
oh well each to their own i also know a lovely couple who have both got fantastic jobs beautiful home ok for money are desperate for a baby but no it aint happening they have had tests and nothing wrong with either of them so it kinda makes it worse as it just is not happening he works away which doesnt help he is away 4/6 weeks at a time then home for 2/3 weeks but hopefully one day the trouble is theyare both mid 30's now and are wanting a baby before hey get too old
anyway i hope that they take up your offer itlovely seeing kids play love diddle x
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