So you'd think that entitled me to a day off from the pain and fatigue. BUT NO!!! feel just as crap as usual, and to top it all my 16yr old daughter came home from work and had a melt down. Other half thinks that she's jealous of the attention i have been getting.
love to all
Sharon xx
Awwww Happy Birthday anyway . Hope you managed to enjoy at least some of your special day.
xx
thanks sweetheart. Other half has just popped out for a chinese so hopefully i'll enjoy that.
xx
Happy birthday hun.
Its my 40th next month and im trying to convince myself that since i haent been out in nearly 2 years, i should glam up and go for it and sod the consequences!
Hope you have a calm and relaxed evening without too much pain. I hope your daughter feels better too.
Loe and gentle huggles
Chilli xx
thank you darling, i know how you feel, i haven't been out in ages cos i need someone to push my wheelchair!!! thanks again for your kind words.
xx
hapt burfday .....
happy birthday x
Happy Birthday hun,hope you enjoyed your chinese and maybe a nice drop of wine
Love and hugs Butterfly54xxxxx
Hey Sharon, extra special, soft and gentle hugs for your 40th! ( I can barely recall my 40th 
) - I hope your evening is happy and as relaxed as possible sweetheart. I always order in my Chinese - though it's been a while - Maybe tomorrow!
Love,
Carol xx
Happy 40th Birthday, welcome to the 40's club lol. Hope your Daughter is feeling better soon. Enjoy your chinese, and the rest of the evening. Best wishes hunni. Big hug & love to you. Helen xxx
Happy Birthday xxx
Happy Birthday! Hope things improved for you.
A few thoughts as I work with teenagers: I am thinking that, maybe your daughter isn't coping with your not getting better. After all it is a big concept and bad enough for us as adults to come to terms with. She may be frightened and unable to express herself, especially as she probably has things going on in her life which she may feel she can't discuss? Just some thoughts which may be wrong.
I have two daughters and both react to stress in different ways. When I was seriously ill having had a pulmonary emobilsm and stiil had pleurisy my youngest became very caring, but my eldest shut herself away in her room. Its just she could not cope, not did not care.
A little comfort after laying that on you just when you feel bad, teenagers grow out of it and can become your best friends. So don't give up on her.
So try and enjoy your birthday - or postpone it until tomorrow and hope its a better day for you. Really bad luck to have a bad day on THE day.
Soft hugs
Hi thanks for your thoughts. She's just being a typical teenager, wanting to be centre of attention!!!! As expressing herself, she has no problems on that front!! lol
Soft hugs to you too
xx
happy birthday ,hope you enjoyed you day ,even with the teenage tantrum lol i have two teenage daughters so i can totally empathise with you ,have a nice rest of the night xxx
happy birthday hunni xxx
A big happy birthday on your special day
Hope you enjoyed your meal and relax afterwards.
Love and hugs xx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WOO WOO THE BIG 40 TODAY !!!! i hope that you have had a really lovely day my 40th was 7 years ago i am fast approaching the next milestone lol 50 arghh now that is scary !!! love to you diddle x
Someone told me the other day that the years between 40 and 50 fly by, if they had been in front of me rather than on the phone i wouldn't have been responsible for my actions!!!!! xx
Happy Birthday hope you enjoyed yourself! Throw caution to the winds and remember we only get one go ! Enjoy xgins
Happy birthday just don't light forty candles lol u.less u can take the heat o we twenty years since I had mine. Hope u feel much better now.
Happy birthday! Try and get some feet up time. I know its hard when you are a busy Mum. Don't over do it when you start to feel better!!!! Enjoy your 40th year its a nice age (know its not easy with all the pain you go through). Be pampered and don't feel guilty.
Happy belated birthday wishes sweetie , hope you managed to have a good day , i have 5 daughters and 2 sons and they were all almost teenagers at the same time and my youngest was born a teenager lol 1 of my girls hit on a good idea cos certain girls in our family can be drama queens on others special days she moves her celebratory days , i tried it last year and had an amazing happy birthday eve lol x
I really feel for you!! I've got 3 kids first two nightmare, eldest got through 3 bedroom doors!!! Youngest (touch wood) is an angel if he sees me in pain he cuddles me, even in supermarkets!!! xx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!
belated birthday wishes hope u had a wonderful birthday xxx
belated happy birthday hunxxx
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