Thank you so much for ur comments I don't feel so scared now, knowing there is people like me out there.
My husband is one in a million and I know I've scared him over the past couple of days. At the moment we have lots of stress due to the fact our landlord wants us out of the house and we have no where to go the council are saying we will have to go into a hostel. We fought an appeal for DLA and lost just before christmas which ment I had to give the car back. So the past few months have been really stressful but we both try and keep smiling so this flare up has come out of the blue really. I've had an increase in pain and not sleeping that's all so to be in this much pain has really knocked us for six.
Also added in the stress my husbands mum has had to be admitted to hospital due to a blood disorder she has had to have chemo. She is home now so that's made us relieved she has got home yesterday after 3 weeks in hospital.
So many thanks everyone I'm trying to rest and keep taking my pain relief so I'm fit to celebrate my daughter's birthday x