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Hi every one sorry I’ve not been in touch for a while only I’ve been packing ready to move in the new year since I lost my wife early part of this year I’ve been struggling with things physically and mentally so I’m moving from my three bed room council house to a one bedroom bungalow the packing has gone well up till now and I’m now having a flare up of my Fibromyalgia so the pain has forced me to stop for a while oh it’s so annoying and frustrating but I know I’ve got to stop and rest or my body will stop it’s self as you all know what that is like

Anyway love too you all and god bless 😘

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rosewine

Good luck with your new home I hope you are very happy there. A bungalow is going to be so much easier for you it was the best thing we did. I visited my brother in law today who lives in a house (haven't done stairs in several years) and really struggled with the stairs so pleased I don't have to tackle them now. Just a hint, whatever you are thinking of taking halve it as masses of our stuff ended up in the garage as I overestimated the storage we would have, lol. Let us know how you get on.x

Hi

So sorry to hear of your loss of your

Precious Wife

🌹♡🌹♡🌹

Thinking of you on your first Christmas without her.

Thankfully, our memories are like Treasure stored in our hearts that nothing can take away.

Hope you can get some rest now and maybe take things slowly when you start working on the move again.

God Bless x

xXx

Hi Hitman, so very sorry to hear about the sad loss of your wife. Hope the move goes smoothly and the flare eases a bit...I downsized 4 years ago and it's the best thing I did as I lived in our cottage for.another 3 years after I lost my hubby. I know how difficult everything is for you just now, people say it gets easier but in my opinion it doesn't it gets different. Sending gentle hugs. Xx love to you too Misty

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Kitten-whiskers

So very sorry for your loss.

Good luck with your move, hopefully moving to a bungalow will make things easier for you in the long run.

It does sound like you need to rest as much as you can, be kind to yourself

Best wishes

Debs

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Midori

So sorry to hear that; You must miss her. Do you find 'letting go' of stuff with memories hard to do?

I do, my husband died 28 years ago, and I'm still hanging on to stuff. I am also moving to a bungalow, but 260 miles away! Packing with the Fibro is pure torture, and the flares make it worse. Also I don't drive, so dependent on others to help, and I hate asking for help!

Cheers, Midori

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Loret

stay strong my friend xxx

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