Sorry but can I just rant and let some steam out of my ears for a minute ? Best beloved just finished asking me what I was going to make for supper ? Well I replied, nothing, I have no spoons left, we have been out all day, please just leave me alone and sort yourselves out. So next question when are you intending to mop the floors ? Not now I replied i am all out of spoons, Well forget it then is the reply I got. Way to go to make me feel even more guilty for having this g.d dam awful f condition. Grrrrrrr.