I can finally get discharged form hospital tomorrow

[Hayley95]

Hi all. The last few days have been a h**l (edited by admin) of a rollercoaster and I’ve been really poorly but according to the nurses I have made a good improvement since giving birth. So they are discharging me don’t morning. So now it all hurting and I’m all upset that I’m not going home with my

Baby boy... 😭😭😭

[Hazel_Angelstar Administrator FMA UK Staff]

Hi

That's great news that you are going home xxx

[Hayley95 in reply to Hazel_Angelstar]

I still don’t think im ready xx

[Hazel_Angelstar Administrator FMA UK Staff in reply to Hayley95]

There will never be a right time for going home by yourself, but I expect there is no need for you to be kept in any longer. Xxx

[Hayley95 in reply to Hazel_Angelstar]

They have said

I’ve made a massively improvement xxx

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Oh Hayley so so sorry to read others posts about you losing your baby boy. I cannot even think about how you are feeling, I'd be so numb. 😢 Glad to hear your improving so you can go home as hospital can be a lonely place especially going through what you are. Much better for you to be home with someone you care about 🤗Take Care Xx I'm Pen btw short for Penny💜

[0118sara]

I’m so so sorry for ur loss Hayley, there is never going to be a good time t leave with ur little Charlie, take care xxxxxx

[Peanut585]

Sorry to hear what you are going through. Hugs 🤗 and thoughts with you and family x

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Hi

I'm so so sorry to hear what you are going through. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. With all my love Lynne xxxx

[loubc]

hi Hayley, I'm so sorry that your going thru so much atm. Check with the staff as I'm sure you have home visits still to check on your health. My friend went thru similar and she had home visits and it made the transition a little bit easier. Strength and courage will come from no where and it's just an hour at a time or even few mins at a time. You'll be able to have family and friends rally about and even just watch rubbish tv. Do little things that make you happier and comfortable. Your family Dr is also a good point of contact as if your overwhelmed then you can pop in, they may not have all the answers but it's there to be used. Your having so many emotions and it must be absolutely agony. You got so much support here and as I'm new to this, it's good to see so much love towards others and being understanding. All my love and hugs x x

[Moomin123]

Hi Hayley, I'm new on hear but I am very, very sorry for your loss. My daughter lost her baby very recently so I can understand the roller coaster emotions that you are going through. It will be a long journey but you need to take little steps and try and get stronger little by little. Sands website is very good and they have a lot of helpful info. I am thinking of you and saying a little prayer for you and your sleeping angel. Try to take care of yourself. xx

[rebelist45]

Oh Hayley, I saw your posts on your birth but did not know that you lost your little boy ! I am so very sorry . I lost a baby boy 25 years ago and you will never forget him but it will get easier over time. Get home, rest up and do nice things and look after yourself. We are all here if you need to rant x

[NanaTisme]

Oh Hayley I’m so sorry just read the other posts, 😩😔please forgive me xxxx

[NanaTisme]

I am so very sorry hun, sending big hugs to you 🤗🤗🤗🌻🌺💐🥀🌹🦋we are all here for you xxx NanaT

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Dear Hayley, I am so sorry for your loss. I've only just caught up here and I can't begin to imagine your pain and turmoil.

Grieving is tiring, I can remember after my partner died finding I didn't have the energy to sit up at times. Slowly, gradually there is an improvement but you have to go at your own pace.

Please make sure you have support, I found it so important in the early days and made some good friends who had all been in similar situations. I'm sure the hospital have offered you information but there are telephone numbers and email contacts on this page babyloss-awareness.org/char....

Be very gentle with yourself and let you and your partner lean on each other. Allow a family member or close friend to tell others what has happened, this will allow you some peace.

On a practical level, you may not want to eat but please make sure you drink. I didn't and became dehydrated which made me quite ill.

Be very kind to yourselves and let others take care of you. Lots of love and hugs.

[glo100]

Hello hanley glad to hear yr going home duc I no its heart breaking goin home without yr beautiful baby boy but home will be the best place for you and yr family at this sad time take care luv glor xxx

[trudym]

Oh Hayley, I didn't realise you lost your little man😔 There are no words to ease how you must be feeling right now. "So sorry & my condolences" aren't strong enough to mend your heart

[Blue46]

Sorry doesn't seem enough we are all saddened by your news of your baby Hayley I'm sure your man is looking after him know. We are all here if you need a chat xxx