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Need a little TLC. My son in law has just ring me with the dreadful news that my daughter has lost her baby, at 18 weeks she has to either deliver or have it surgicaĺy removed. What a dreadful decision to have to make. I can't begin to comprehend their pain but my years won't stop, they're like raindrops in my heart and I don't have enough breath to cry properly. I feel so lost.

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Greenpeace

Oh Ccupcakes ,

my heart goes out to you and your family, it is heartbreaking to to hear such news.

I can't find the right words to say to you at this sad time, but know that you're all in my heart and prayers.

Love, GP.

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Matrix

I know that loss and I feel your pain , I'm so very sorry to hear this . She will need your arms and comfort. . Sending you a cyber hug and praying that they make the right choice for them , all you can do is support them both their hopes and dreams have been dashed . All the best and a cyber hug is on it's way to you and yours . Xx

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Kitten-kat23

I am so sorry, I have been in that situation. My heart goes out to your family.

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BlueMermaid3

What terrible news 🙁 I am so very sorry.

Your daughter and son in law must be devastated.

I can completely understand why you are getting yourself into such a state.

We are all here for you.

I wish there was something that I could say to make you feel better.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I am also sending a giant hug to you.

Lu xx

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Ccupcakes

Thank u x

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peck

Oh Ccupcakes , I am so very sorry for you, your daughter, your son in law and anyone else involved.Its just a bad situation I've never had to face and would not wish it on anyone.I will keep you all in my prayers.Please take care of you so you can be there for her.You know you have all of us if you need us.Be blessed. Peck.🐤

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Ccupcakes in reply to peck

Thank u peck x just can't stop the tears at the moment

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peck in reply to Ccupcakes

Ccupcakes , I've said a prayer for you and your family. God is good, He works in His time as He knows it to be the right for whatever reason. If you need someone , I'll be off and on today but if you leave me a PM, I will msg you back hun.I do care.Hugs, Peck.🐤

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BonnieSue

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying for you, your daughter and her husband and all affected by this loss. I can't begin to understand the depths of your sadness yet I know suffering when our child suffers. Sending you hugs and warmth and loving support for as long as it's needed.

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Ccupcakes in reply to BonnieSue

Thank u BonnieSue, all these lovely responses are a salve , the strokes that I need at this moment xx

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Robbie138

Oh Ccupcakes , I am so sorry to read this, words fail me. Here are a few special 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

For you and family to share, I know it's not much but it's from the heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️ xxx

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Ccupcakes in reply to Robbie138

Thank u xxxx

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angiesmith50

I'm so very sorry Ccupcakes . How dreadful. My heart goes out to you and your family. xxxxx

oh dear .how awful for you all as a family .

had similar experience 39 years ago and it is not nice .

no amount of words sympathy will make it better initially .

time will heal and she will go on to have her family .

its the near future that is the hard time to cope and deal with .

by giving them your support and love you will begin to share and cope together .

you will all cry when the initial shock wears off ..

love and hugs pgp

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Mpalgal

So sorry for your sad news. Been in same situation myself so understanding feeling lost. Take comfort in each other and together as a family you will come through it. For now just be there for them and love each other. Sending hugs and love. Mxx

I'm so sorry to read this. Heartbreaking news. Has sent shivers down my back. Big gentle hugs for all of you.xx

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Rose54

So sorry

Rose xxx

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bluebell99

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Soft hugs.

X

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tmc182

So sorry for this terrible news. Sending hugs to you all having been through this myself I know there's nothing to say to make it better. Just know genuine thoughts of love are being sent your family's way.

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Ccupcakes in reply to tmc182

Thank you x

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cespinosa

So sorry to hear of your loss,and your families.xx. Chris

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Crusee

How awful for you and yiur family Ccupcakes .

Such dreadful news.

Nothing I can say will help you right now .

Bit just to let you know I am thinking of you all at this time.

It truly is such sad news.

Take care.

Crusee

XX

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TheAuthor

All my hopes and dreams for all of you my friend x

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Ccupcakes in reply to TheAuthor

Thank u Ken x. U ok?

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TheAuthor in reply to Ccupcakes

I am fine thank you my friend, please take care of yourself x

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MariLiz

I am so sorry to hear that you are all going through such a terrible time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter and son in law. MariLiz xx

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fenbadger

I cant begin to imagine either, but it must surely be devastating. My heart goes out to you all.

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fenbadger

I cant begin to imagine either, but it must surely be devastating. My heart goes out to you all.

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