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The time was right 😢

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So last night, my partner and I made the decision to say ‘see you soon’ to our gorgeous little pea, we lost our precious one 4 weeks ago, at just 6 weeks, but after years of trying, failed ivf cycles and a horrible episode of severe ohss, we needed to find some closure. We know that we will never forget, and the pain will stay with me forever, but we finally found a moment for us to reflect and say what needed to be said. We managed to get away for a short weekend trip to our favourite place in the world, a beach in Cornwall, and last night sent a balloon up over the ocean with a message from us both on it. A very sad moment, but one I feel will help us both in our journey forward. As we left Cornwall this morning for our 6 hour drive home, this gorgeous rainbow came up over the hill, lil one was saying “see you both soon”, I’m safe now

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Kempton

Sorry for your loss. But what a beautiful sign. Glad you have a bit of closure and good luck with the rest of your journey.

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Shirazlover2013

Wow such a beautiful sentiment and photo! I’m sorry for your loss. Look after yourself and your partner xx

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randall55

So very sorry for your loss x

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vic77

so very sorry for your loss.we did something similar and it really helped us both too. rainbows really are signs. sending love xxxx

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londonrc

Oh that is so beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss it’s an awful thing to have to go through. Wishing you both all the best. X

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Cinderella5

Awww this is beautiful! Love to you both!xx

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