Making myself ill with worry!

[Kvelvetrose]

Hi everyone

It has been a while since I posted, but I have worried myself sick this week over my dating scan tomorrow. I suffer with migraine anyways but this week has been terrible, the nausea seems to have joined in too, where last week I thought it was settling.

I have had Mon and tue off work as I couldn't lift my head for pain and nausea. My migraines are usually stress related so I'm wondering if I'm doing this to myself!!

I have had no bleeding in this pregnancy, although I have had pains (not the same as my 2 mc's). I'm terrified that they will find a missed MC or the baby will be high risk of a chromosomal or have a neural tube defect.

How has everyone coped is similar situations? At this rate I won't be able to drive there

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Hi ive just joined this group I have had 2 mmc both over 12w, last one was found at the 12w scan no heartbeat measuring 9w. So I know your anxiety you must have been feeling I know this post was a month ago so how did it go?

[Kvelvetrose in reply to Hidden]

Hi gwc, thanks for your reply, if im honest i have given up posting. People seem to have lost interest and stopped replying to me so there is no support here.

Im sorry to hear what you have gone through, its awful! How are you doing now?

Things actually went great with the scan, me and my fiancee cried all of the way through. We also got a low risk blood result for chromosomal abnormalities too about a week or so later. So that was nice

My next worry is the anomaly scan in 2 weeks time, but i guess i am going to worry all of the way through. Xx

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Yeah Ive noticed not many people reply to this forum have you tried the fertility one they seem to answer, Tho I dont feel I fit into that group exactly I have 2 kids and havent needed IVF but I have had miscarrriages so Im sliding in slowly.

Thats great your scan was perfect and you are low risk takes the pressure off, we are going to try again straight away im 38 clocks ticking like you said about needing 3mc before anything is done? Hoping this time it'll be ok and we have a healthy pregnancy. I am worried tho because we get to 12weeks and it all goes wrong, this is my thinking Im actually terrified of scans now the thought of one I can just cry that I should ask for the scan to be at 14 weeks instead of 12 so if I am going to miscarry I will before 14weeks and will start naturally and therefore wont have the heartbreak of the scan thinking everythings ok.

So will this be your 20week? half way through id be so excited now x

[Kvelvetrose in reply to Hidden]

Yeah my 20 week, hopefully if all is ok the final scan, so nerve wracking but fingers crossed.

I hope everything goes well for you this time! Its awful having scans, other people are always so excited but if you have had mc's all they do is have you on edge.

I will keep my fingers crossed for you xx