Missed miscarriage

[lFarrah]

Hello everyone,

Just needed a rant and reassurance I had a missed misscage 8 weeks ago I was 8+5 weeks when baby died. I had a scan 3 weeks ago everything mainly gone but a few blood clots that will come away in next period but I am still waiting for my period it’s making me stressed upset angry I just want my body back. Any one has anything Similar? Thank you in advance x

[ICSIRose]

Hi farrah unfortunately I do not have any advice however I am really sorry to be reading your sad news!

I had a chem preg 5 weeks ago bled for two days at the time and nothing since so I understand your frustration With your delayed AF!

I hope she arrives fornyiy soon xxx

[lFarrah in reply to ICSIRose]

Thank you. really sorry to hear your sad news too.

can I asked what happened with your self? just so much frustration and stress I called

hospital last night because I have been in pain and worried I get an infection but she

said wait another week. just want to move forward and try look forward to Christmas.

I also find everyone around me is pregnant just hurts. you take care xxx

[ICSIRose in reply to lFarrah]

Hey!

although it was unfortunate for me I am grateful I was only four weeks! I am still in two minds as to whether it’s even classed as a pregnancy however I had positive tests for five days Inc the day AF arrived! I had private treatment and I feel as though I have been treated worse than when I had my nhs cycle!

Yes they said exactly the same to me yesterday when I called, I am now 10days late and also think I have an infection as my abdomin is sore and bloated also it’s painful having intercourse (doesn’t help with my decreased libido at present) apologies for the tmi!!!

I completely understand with everyone being pregnant around you... pregnant women are everywhere when you don’t want them to be! My friend decided to tell me she was pregnant with no5 last week and we would have been due around the same time... absolutely not what I wanted to hear I was so upset and frustrated as she’s in an unhealthy relationship and I just feel it’s so greedy! (Personal opinion)

Life is so cruel on the fertility road... I have everything crossed for us both in 2018!!! 💝 Xxxxxx

[lFarrah in reply to ICSIRose]

You have had to go through this situation course you was pregnant weather it be short or long time. That is exactly the same as me I just don't know which way to turn? I dont want it to complicate it for the future? we are both In the exact same boat because I was at a kids party on Saturday my friend asked howi was knowing what has gone on etc and then said she is pregnant like gloating it hurt and I went home and cried.

really feel for you and hope we both get a happy ending in 2018 and thank you for responding too me xxxxx

[ICSIRose in reply to lFarrah]

That is not helpful at all! I Think it’s safe to say I am no longer communicating with my also gloating friend! It’s so difficult isnt it but I do think going through something like this separates friends from those who are just nosey!

Oh your welcome it’s horrible when no one responds on here and didn’t want you to feel along because you are not!

Best of luck and please keep in touch xxx

[lFarrah in reply to ICSIRose]

It really does doesn't it! I know the ones who just like to know your business.

thank you really appreciate it please private message me if you want to chat :). xxx