Hi everyone. So at the recommendation of my specialist I saw a counsellor after our early miscarriage on our previous cycle. I feel a bit better or at least more able to get my head into the right place for our FET in September.
We have 5 embryos frozen (4 good ones and 1 average/poor). The specialist said I can have two if I want but he would recommend one in case I miscarry again as then he will refer me to further tests to see why I keep miscarrying. He says I may not miscarry as we aren't sure if it was an unfortunate one off or something else wrong with me. I think the way he phrased it was that he didnt want me to put all my eggs in one basket before we have the full view. I think he is worried about me 'wasting' my embryos. But at the same time, I may just have been unfortunate and had a one off and that be that. It's tricky.
Either way I wanted advice as I always said if we had to go down the FET route I wanted two put back. And I do trust my specialist a lot as he's followed me through my whole fertility journey over the years. My husband says we should listen to him and just put one back in case there is something wrong causing these miscarriages, but I just have this gut feeling that it's not going to work if we only put one back. I just feel like I should put two back. I can't explain why but I do. So I'm torn. I've always gone with my gut on things but my husband and the specialist are both telling me something else.