hi had a tubal tie 7 year ago partner... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

52,496 members57,761 posts

hi had a tubal tie 7 year ago partner has no kids can we have ivf on nhs we have been together 5 year

cazdaz72 profile image
11 Replies

i have 5 children which i concieved normally and am trying to find out if i can recieve free nhs treatment for ivf

Written by
cazdaz72 profile image
cazdaz72
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
11 Replies
Dave2166 profile image
Dave2166

I might be wrong but I'd say you would be unlikely to get any nhs treatment.

with so many Pct's having reduced or stopped treatment entirely

cheekymunkey profile image
cheekymunkey

You wi not be entitled to ivf on nhs a because you already have Children and b because you have had tubal tie x

I am really sorry to say this but I dont think you will be entitled to IVF on the NHS as you have children xx

DianeArnold profile image
DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi there!

Sadly, I have to agree with the others. If there are any children within a relationship – whichever partner they belong to – then it considered that you have children within that relationship. You can always try to request treatment on the NHS through your Primary Care Trust (PCT), but I feel the answer would be the same. However, if you are under 36yrs of age, a possible solution might be to offer yourself as an egg donor to a private clinic. They then might consider offering you IVF in exchange for some of your eggs – just a thought. If you have a look at our website infertilitynetworkuk.com you will be able to find out more about this. I wish you well.

Diane Arnold

cazdaz72 profile image
cazdaz72 in reply to DianeArnold

Hi thanks for everyones answers,I do have children and would prefer the NHS to help people with no children.thing is I also feel for my partner as he loves my kids but longs for a child of his own,I was made aware the guidelines changed this year so where one partner has no children IVF cud be available on NHS I am 40 now and time is not on my side as guidelines state to age of 42 anyone know if this has actually come into practise yet thanks

pink_panther profile image
pink_panther in reply to cazdaz72

I understand exactly how you feel as we are in the same boat. It is not fair as my partner has no children and hes suffering as i have children and they wont help us. It is heart breaking that they do not take his feelings into consideration. My partners brother is having a baby and it has made it all alot worse, it is killing him. well both of us, you have to be all happy for them but you just cant, good luck!

DianeArnold profile image
DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi there

Yes, the guidelines have recently been updated as follows:

“Extending the age limit for women aged 40 to 42 years, where IVF is the only possible chance of pregnancy (this is defined as absolute infertility)“. Sadly though, these are only recommendations and not “law”, so it is still entirely up to your PCT (Primary Care Trust) as to whether you would be considered. If you have a look at our website infertilitynetworkuk.com you will be able to access a section called “Funding for Fertility”. In the “resources” section, there is a template of a letter to appeal against refusal of treatment on the NHS. You might like to try and send this off to your PCT to see if they will consider you.

Diane Arnold

cazdaz72 profile image
cazdaz72 in reply to DianeArnold

Thanks Diane x

weekara2 profile image
weekara2

Hi it might be possible as early as next year as i was at my second appointment 2day. my partner has a low sperm count and i have a child to a previous relationship and was told that the criteria is changing soon as early as next year we could be offered ivf or iui so fingers crossed

DianeArnold profile image
DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

I really wish you both well with this, and hope all works out for you.

Diane Arnold

MrsMarsh profile image
MrsMarsh

My husband had a vasectomy a few years back, and when he got with me, he know I wanted children, we had to pay privately for a reversal £4000 and 4 years on we can't conceive.

We can't get NHS treatment as he has 2 children. So we have to go private. I feel really bitter towards this as a woman with no children I feel I'm getting penalised. Having to sell the car to fund the IVF and if the first don't work then will have to remortgage to fund the rest.

You may also like...

hi everyone, i'm 25yrs old iv been wif my partner for over a year now and we are wanting to do ivf

do ivf i'm unable to have kids as i have hhad both my foloipian tubes taken out so i get it free off

I am a healthy and fertile 30yr old woman who wants to have another child w my new husband, but he had a vasectomy 13yrs ago. What can we do

Test day tomorrow. I'm sooooo nervous 🙈

Bfp finally am in shock 7dpt 5dpt xx

nearly 5 years of ttc I get a bfp I feel like I have won the lottery 🌈⭐️💕❤️❤️❤️xxx

This month IVF ( Nervous)