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it’s over …..

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after my double transfer on 03/08 I tested early last Friday and got a BFP ! Was so happy as it was our last 2 embryos . Was very anxious as we had a chemical in December and a miscarriage in April .

My Otd is today and it’s now negative so am assuming another chemical .

Feeling gutted but glad I didn’t get too excited …

Wishing you all lots of luck in your cycles and thank you all for your support on here xxx

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Oh no Mrs B I am so sorry 😢 I so hoped that this was your sticky one. Sending you the hugest hug xx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to

Thanks daisy , me too but it wasn’t meant to be . Hopefully one day I’ll become a mummy xx

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Rol81

So sorry x

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Rol81

Thank you Rol81 xx

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Savvy_teapot

What a rollercoaster. Sending kind thoughts to you 💜 Take time to process

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Savvy_teapot

Thank you x

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Kittykat198

Sending a hug. I found out our transfer was a chemical at the end of last week too. It’s the worst process isn’t it xx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Kittykat198

Yes it’s just horrible … I thought I would be better after having one in December but it’s just as bad xx

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NM19

Soo sorry to hear this hun xx my test was also negative xx sending hugs x

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XxMrsBXx in reply to NM19

Am sorry to hear this . Thinking of you too xx

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Nenad

So sorry to hear this, had the same thing last week so I feel your pain. Look after yourself xx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Nenad

Sorry to hear you are going through it too . Thinking of you xx

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Jules0277

So sorry to hear this. We had a chemical too a few weeks ago with our last frozen embryo. The double transfer last year ended up as a blighted ovum and trip to hospital due to miscarriage. We’re having a consult with doctors this week on what they suggest next. Am hoping it is a numbers game and if we try again we may have more success.

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Jules0277

Hope your ok jules … sounds like a hard time for you . We have had 2 egg collections already so not sure if I can put myself through another .

Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Kimbob82

Sorry MrsB. It’s so hard when you finally feel like it’s your turn and then it gets taken away from you. 😢Doesn’t seem fair. Look after yourself xo

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Kimbob82

Thank you kimbob xx

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zzko21

So sorry to hear this…going through the same it sucks…wishing you all the best

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XxMrsBXx in reply to zzko21

It does , hope your ok xx

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Littlepeax

Thinking of you lovely ❤️💫😔 here if you need me xxx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Littlepeax

Thanks Littlepea ❤️Xxx

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Woody2019

Oh hunni I’m so so sorry, I was truly rooting for you. Thinking of you, this journey is honestly so hard but stay strong♥️

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Woody2019

Thanks woody ❤️Xx

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Eternalwarrior

I am so so sorry, lovely 🥲Sending you a massive virtual hug xxx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Eternalwarrior

Thank you so much 💜xx

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XxMrsBXx

My clinic have just messaged me saying they think it’s another chemical and just to retest in a few days time xx

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Aame7800

Thinking of you xx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Aame7800

Thank you Aame xx

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FrancyItaly

I’m so sorry to hear that 😔❤️

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XxMrsBXx in reply to FrancyItaly

❤️❤️

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Cinderella5

I am so sorry to hear this MrsB. Massive hugs.xxx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you Cinderella 💜xx

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Ruby1980

I'm so sorry to hear this. It happened to me the end if July with our last frozen embryo. Its heartbreaking.Big hugs to you and mind yourself x

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Ruby1980

Thanks Ruby .I feel a bit better today and looking at next steps for us xx

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Ruby1980 in reply to XxMrsBXx

That's good I'm glad to hear you feel a bit better. Take each day at a time. It helps to focus on next steps whatever that may be. I am in the same boat and feel better now we are getting a plan in place. X

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Ruby1980

Hi ruby , I hope your ok too .What is your plan if you don’t mind me asking ?

U can pm if u want xx

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Ruby1980 in reply to XxMrsBXx

I'm ok. I'm much better than I was 2 weeks ago. Yeah sure no problem, we are going to give it another shot and try one last cycle. I'm 42 so my chances are quite low, but it's not 0%! It feels good to have a plan in place, as two weeks ago I couldn't see any hope of anything. Although it's scary to enter into a new full fresh cycle, (I'm terrified) it still feels better than the despair of last month. Hope you're doing OK. X

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Ruby1980

How many collections have u had ? I have had 2 and 8 transfers and just feel now that it’s never going to happen so think we are going to look at other options. I’m 38 next month so I’m thinking I could have another collection and all the transfers and still be where we are now.

I really hope your next one is the one for you ❤️

I feel like I’ve cooked really well this time round although my hubby keeps saying to me you keep saying your fine but I know your not … am working full time so got to be strong as no one at all ( family or friends / work ) know we are going through ivf

Xx

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XxMrsBXx in reply to Ruby1980

That should have said coped really well xx

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