9dp5dt back ache *update* BFN I’m afraid

[Mai94]

This wait has been so hard!! I’ve had back ache and a dull lower abdo ache on and off for days! Especially the back. This evening I’ve got the tiniest bit of pinky/orange discharge it’s such a small amount but I can’t help but think this is the start of AF. I’m planning to test tomorrow morning but so scared to get a positive and then have a chemical. My boobs have become really sore, the ache is quite intense in my back and I’m so bloated! Natural FET so no progesterone, never feel this achey before AF but really feel as though this is going in the wrong direction!

Keeping everything crossed, for those testing this weekend too 🤞🏽

[Jess1981]

Good luck, hoping this is implantation bleeding 🤞🏻I got some at 4 weeks it was pinky and brown as well as some cramps. Also felt like my period was coming tooXx

[Mai94 in reply to Jess1981]

Thanks Jess! I really hope so 🤞🏽🤞🏽 How are you getting on? X

[Londongirl84]

Good luck! Hope you get your positive tomorrow! 🤞🏽 xx

[hoping_for_our_time]

Everything crossed for you. Pinky/orangey sounds like it might be implantation bleeding, but you won't know for sure until you test. Really hopeful for you, keep us updated xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Mai. Could be irritation from pessary use. Keep up with any prescribed medication and please test on the day recommended by your clinic. Good luck! Diane

[Mai94 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thanks Diane. I was on a natural fet so no pessaries for me! Tested today day 10 and negative unfortunately. My official test day is tomorrow so I will repeat the test but I’m pretty sure this one has been unsuccessful x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Mai94]

Hi. So sorry to hear this. Hopefully success next time, fingers crossed. Diane

[Giraffebaby]

Sorry to hear this Mai94. It was my OTD day today too (on my 3rd cycle all fresh transfers as I've only ever got to one embryo to transfer) and for me too a BFN.

Right now the thought of starting again seems completely exhausting and overwhelming but I'm not prepared to stop trying to build my family yet. Taking a few months off for summer and to recharge before I start again.

I completely feel your pain as I sit here intermittantly shedding a tear for another few months of hope dissolved from peeing on a stick!

[AuroraXen in reply to Giraffebaby]

So sorry about your BFN too Giraffebaby 😔 There are no words... such build-up and hope 💔 Good decision to take a bit of time off before going again. Take care of yourself x