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The ever changing seasons of ivf. Hold on! Summer always comes ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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Home and recovering from my ERPC surgery yesterday and just wanted to say thank you to all of you who reached out with hugs of support and advice .

It would be a harder road without you all.๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

As I lay in my side room waiting for my surgery I spotted this lovely tree outside the window and I felt sad that summer was ending and the leaves were about to fall off . Then I remembered the lovely lockdown spring walks Iโ€™d had a few months back . That only seemed like a couple of weeks ago now!

Time passes so quickly and just like the seasons, no matter how rubbish your season/ place on the ivf road may feel , just remember....

Like the seasons, your current place is just temporary .

It wonโ€™t always feel like this. Take heart in the support you have and hold on.

After winter comes spring again .

Holding on to hope for us all. ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’“

Brighter days will always come.๐ŸŒ…

And although we wAit .....so impatiently for them, try to see the beauty of the place/season you are in.

Massive hugs of understanding for all those ivf sisters recovering from the same at the minute .

We will be alright in a minute. ๐Ÿ’

Hugs ๐Ÿค—

๐Ÿฆ ๐Ÿˆ x

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ttcemmie

This is a lovely message, RhinoCat. Wishing you all the best and a strong recovery (emotionally and physically) after what you've been through. Thanks for the reminder that there is no permanency and new days will come. Lots of love xxxxx

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RhinoCat in reply to ttcemmie

๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ thanks so much

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Sas1101

This is just lovely โค๏ธ Sending you lots of hugs back. Xxx

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RhinoCat in reply to Sas1101

Thanks Sas ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ have a great day

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Cinderella5

Awwww this is just beautiful Rhinocat! It takes a very special person to reach out in their time of despair to help others see better times are ahead. I hope you are healing, take it easy lovely! Lots of love to you both.xxxx

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RhinoCat in reply to Cinderella5

Iโ€™m lying up being served by the husband ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ tough times but they will pass. Hugs to you ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

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Cinderella5 in reply to RhinoCat

Thank you! Glad to hear you are being looked after honey.....take care!!xxx

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PenguinBlue

This is such a positive lovely message rhinocat! I hope you are recovering well. Your positive outlook and mindset is so inspiring. Lots of hugs xxx

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RhinoCat in reply to PenguinBlue

๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ I donโ€™t know another way ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ thanks for your hugs ๐Ÿค—

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PenguinBlue in reply to RhinoCat

Itโ€™s a great mindset and mentality to have. It will definitely help you as you begin your recovery. Hope youโ€™re being pampered right now and take it nice and easy xxx

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hannahkc

Get well soon RhinoCat! Great post ๐Ÿ˜Š

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RhinoCat in reply to hannahkc

Thanks pet ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’ hope you have a great day ๐Ÿ’–

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Pinksunshine39

Such a beautiful post x thank you, I definitely needed to be reminded that better days will come. Hope you are doing ok, sending lots of hugs xx

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RhinoCat in reply to Pinksunshine39

Doing ok for now, Iโ€™m not too bad physically and Iโ€™ve space to cry to let my emotions heal too. Hugs to you ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

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Millbanks

The impatience is real! But you are right, thank you for the reminder. Ivf makes you feel frantic and anxious and sometimes I need to stop and remember all the other good things in life. Hope your heart is mending xxx

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RhinoCat in reply to Millbanks

We put an awful pressure on ourselves in it all. If we are in charge of the pressure we are also in charge of the calm . Breathe deep, ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

thank you thank you for reminding us .. u take a good care ofyourself lovely.

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Thanks lovely ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

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Faith103

Lovely positive message. โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’—โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’—โค๏ธ xxxx

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RhinoCat in reply to Faith103

๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’

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Ladypii

This is beautiful RhinoCat. You really are an inspiration of positivity for all of us! I love reading your posts and it makes me think if she can do it so can I!! Sending all the blessings your way that you recover quickly and get back on the ivf horse Xxxx

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RhinoCat in reply to Ladypii

Bless ya ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

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Ranchu90

Oh you are a beautiful soul ๐Ÿค—โค๏ธ

Lovely words to read while at work (Tuesday is the busiest day of the week๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿคฏ) I wish you a speedy recovery and lots of love...

We need people like you here โค๏ธ

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RhinoCat in reply to Ranchu90

Hugs to you, Tuesday means three more sleeps to the weekend ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿคฉ keep er lit!

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Corchi

Always positive, always a warrior. Your strength and hope is admirable and beautiful. Sending you so much love ๐Ÿ’•

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RhinoCat in reply to Corchi

Thanks pet ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

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Positivevibe

Such a lovely well written post which sums up pretty much everything going on in our lives. As much as it scares me that the seasons are changing and I am still at where I was before, as you said, itโ€™s all temporary. I wish you a super quick recovery so you can get back in to this crazy journey again. All the best ๐Ÿ˜Š

Wise words. Sending you lots of love as always - hope your body heals soon and your feel stronger over time, it all does get easier xx

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Maisie234

That almost brought a tear to my eye, well done you for getting through today and still thinking of others. Your absolutely right, you deserve all the nice messages and hugs. This will pass, xxx

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Lovemylion

Lovely post. Actually made me cry. Hope your getting lots of support. Admire your outlook on life. Really need to take a leaf out of your book. Xx

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KiboXX

This is such a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. Sending you a big hug lovely xx

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Ivf2020A

What an inspiration and uplifting post, you are such and amazing lady to be writing such beautiful words in your time of hardship. Wishing and sending you all the ๐Ÿ’“ and healing vibes I can find xx get well soon hun x

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Luna_79

Oh rhinocat what a lovely post - made me cry with its poignancy, so lovely of you to write such a post to give others strength when you must feel like your heart has been torn out. Thank you this helped me immensely and I know will have helped many others. You are right seasons change and our time will come ๐Ÿ’• hope you are getting rest and you and your partner getting lots of TLC , sending you much love and wishing you happier times ahead xxx

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Westielover16

A really lovely post and amazing that you are able to be so positive even at such a difficult time. Sending you loads of love and hugs xx

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WorthyS

Massive hugs ! Xx

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Picalilli99

Lovely post. Sending a big virtual hug your way ๐Ÿ’ž xx

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Rainbowdreams82

What a lovely post Rhinocat when youโ€™ve been through such a lot. Youโ€™re amazing and so strong. An inspiration to us all on here. Wishing you lots of time to relax and recover after all this and I know youโ€™ll keep going stronger than ever. Sending lots of positive vibes your way & lots of love ๐ŸŒˆ xx

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PurplePiggie

Beautiful words, sending you lots of love for your recovery ๐Ÿ˜˜ xx

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FluffyPink

This is beautiful ๐Ÿ’ Thank you. xxx

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Dinah_lady

Hope you are recovering well, taking time to heal and rest. So sorry to hear all that you have gone through recently.

Be kind to yourself and absolutely enjoy all the things in life that we can, no matter how small they may seem ๐Ÿ’ ๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿท ๐ŸŒณ ๐Ÿ‚ โ˜€๏ธ x x

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AuroraXen

Hope by now you are feeling a bit better after your surgery. And hoping you will feel stronger and stronger emotionally too, after such an ordeal. Thinking of you often lovely ๐Ÿ’ž x

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RhinoCat in reply to AuroraXen

Thanks pet. Iโ€™ve to go back to the epu again on Monday ๐Ÿ˜ฃbut Iโ€™m hoping Iโ€™m on road to recovery now as Iโ€™m starting to feel a bit brighter.

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FluffyPink

What a beautiful thing you wrote here & itโ€™s still true even though it will take some time to feel like this again. xx

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