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Lovelies, further to my news this morning, I’ve started to cramp really bad and bleed about an hour ago. I’m in bed trying not to worry, watching comedy shows but I’m terrified right now. Consultant telling me to relax and hopefully it will pass. I’ve just taken more progesterone. Please please please let this not be the end........

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Did you have an internal scan? It could be that xx

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Yes I did and the consultant commented on some minor bleeding she spotted on the scan. I so hope it will pass.

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I am sure it will lovely, definitely rest up. It would be very unusual to go from heartbeats this morning to panic this afternoon. I am sure its part scan and partly that bleeding coming away. I have loads of friends who bled in early pregnancy (particularly when carrying twins) and all was well long term.. and they all have bouncing babies. Take it steady and wishing you luck xx

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Thank you, just what I needed to hear! Xx

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Cinderella5

Omg Jengi....noooo What a bloody worry! My heart goes out to you however I do know that especially with twins you can get more bleeding than with one. Really hoping all is ok, glad you've hopped into bed. Can you up your progesterone?xxx

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jengi in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks lovely. I’ve just taken extra progesterone. Fingers crossed!

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Cinderella5 in reply to jengi

I've got my fingers, toes...literally everything crossed. I'm sure will be ok, just rest up and if you are working try to get signed off. I cycled with a girl that had horrific bleeding and passed clots and she has a little one now. Massive hugs, you must be out of your head with worry.xxx

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jengi in reply to Cinderella5

Terrified is the word I would use. Trying to stay calm and relaxed, I just keep repeating those words. I’m not religious but my mum is, we only told her this morning and have had to text her & ask her to cash in some favour with Mr God, they are best buddies, so who knows! Xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to jengi

Yes terrified, I can only imagine!😕Well I hope the big man upstairs listens to your mum. I'm not religious either but I've said a few prayers whilst going through this nonsense! Thinking of you all!!😘😘xxx

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magda22

Im sorry babes, that is crap. But sounds like you're on it with the right things, relaxing and getting some great reassurance here - so many people bleed in early pregnancy. All the positive love to you xx

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jengi in reply to magda22

Thanks hun, it is crap but thanks for the positivity X

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treezuk

Try not to worry I had a bleed with the twins at 5w2d and bright red blood for several hours I went to epu had blood test and cervix check all were good and then I did a progesterone injection that night and was fine after than when I had my 7w scan and they said it was twins she said she could still see blood there and expect another bleed but I never got one so hang in there xxx

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jengi in reply to treezuk

Thanks lovely! Xx

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Picalilli99

So sorry this has happened after such a positive morning. But like others have said, it could easily be a bit of bleeding aggravated by the ultrasound and also bleeding unfortunately is so common in early pregnancy (why the hell cant anything on this journey just be straight forward?!). Rest up lovely. I’ll be sending all my positive vibes your way. Take care xxxx

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jengi in reply to Picalilli99

Thank you! Xx

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GiantPanda

Oh Jengi, I'm so sorry the ups and downs are continuing. I've read everyone's replies, and with what your consultant said too, I hope you can relax a little. You've got this! Have another hot chocolate and continue with the Netflixing. Thinking of you. Xxx

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jengi in reply to GiantPanda

Thanks lovely. Not long to go for you! Best of luck. Keep me posted Xx

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Mazzath1

I had cramps and bleeding on and off when I was pregnant. Now have two beautiful twins. I think you tend to bleed more with twins..also progestone pessaries used to irrate my cervix. Cause bleeding. So I ended up using them via the back passage which really helped. Xxx

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jengi in reply to Mazzath1

I do a vaginal gel in the morning and progesterone tablets 200mg at lunch and in the evening. Fingers crossed it will ease Xx

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Mazzath1

oh and I recall after my 6 week scan I had quite a bleed it calmed down after a few hours xxx

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jengi in reply to Mazzath1

Awh thanks you, very reassuring!

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RhinoCat

Awh pet .... rest rest and distract ! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘😘😘😘😘💐💐💐💐💐💐💐 hold tight 🙏🏻

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jengi in reply to RhinoCat

Rest & distract. Rewatching some old FRIENDS episodes, always makes me giggle! Xx

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RhinoCat in reply to jengi

Good shout! Hopefully the cramps are just after the scan and everything will settle down. I had bad cramps yesterday after my scan and felt it was over but not as bad today . Hoping fir the best as you rest and giggle and Ross and Chandler 😘💐💖

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JenRoy

Sounds so scary!! Hope you’re resting up 🙏🙏

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Twiglet2

Sending love and good vibes your way! Must be such a worry but remember the positive news from this morning too 🤗 and hoping this passes soon, you are doing everything right xxx

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recidwen

Jengi! Right there with you. I had a crazy bleed last night. At the scan today all was still fine. Apparently it is really common, esp with ivf pregnancies. I have read a bazillion studies today so feel free to message me if you want some bleeding pregnant buddy support 🤗

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Drives

Sending lots of positive vibes your way 🤞🏻 thinking of you and keeping everything crossed x x

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Stato

Just caught up on your rollercoaster day! Keeping everything crossed you’re on the up again niw. We’re all rooting for you and the twinnies! X🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Littlepeax

How are you feeling now? Hope you're ok, thinking of you ♥️💫 come on little babies xxx

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Rainbowhope

Sweets please try to stay positive and you're in my thoughts and prayers. X

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