*sensetive* 8 week scan confirm miscarriage

I hate being the example of “see with ivf a BFP doesnt mean anything” but unfortunately i am.

At week 6 we had a slow beating little heart.

At 8 week nothing had progressed.

Im numb - only thing that goes through my head is just yesterday i had slightly first signs of nausea and i thought that might be a good sign.

I feel pregnant (bloated mostly) my body had started to change.

I decided to go with the natural way and wait a week before going back.

Not sure what to do really 💔

X

Mimi

[Lumie]

Oh Mimi, this was heartbreaking to read. I'm so sorry. 💔

[Hidden in reply to Lumie]

Thank you Lumie. X

[Hope76]

So so sorry to read this. Having been in your shoes I can assure you the pain will get easier ....in time. Although it’s something that never leaves you. 💔 Once I felt up to it I planned my next cycle ASAP and that kept me going. x

[Melspels]

I’m so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you xx

[Hidden in reply to Melspels]

Thank you hun x

[Hidden]

I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss 😢xxx

[Infertilemyrtle]

Oh lovely I'm so sorry I found out about my miscarriage too yesterday and am doing the natural route. It sucks doesn't it? Almost didn't believe it at first. Now another type of wait begins. Feel free to message me if you want to chat. You aren't alone in this x

[Hidden in reply to Infertilemyrtle]

Thank you so much lovely. Just in matters of seconds it was over. Im afraid of the wait but also hoping it comes soon xx

[Keepingfaith85]

So sad to hear this Mimi. Sending hugs your way xxx

[Hidden in reply to Keepingfaith85]

Thanks darling x

[Twiglet2]

So sorry to hear this 😢 thinking of you xx

[CLDxxx]

I’m so so sorry Mimi. This is so tough. I have been there before and it’s just heartbreaking. I’m here if you want to chat.

Be kind to yourself. Sending love ❤️

[Hidden in reply to CLDxxx]

Thank u so much hun x

[pelvicpain123]

thinking of you xxx

[Hidden in reply to pelvicpain123]

Thank u so much lovely x

[Chel91]

So sorry for your loss Mimi. It's so incredibly unfair and heartbreaking. Sending you lots of hugs. Please look after yourself and know we are all thinking of you ❤ xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Chel91]

Thank u darling. Its just a lovely thought to have a community like this backing me x

[F_J_762301]

Oh mimi im so sorry to hear this. Life is so cruel and it seems particularly unfair on us ivf ladies when we have already struggled so much. It will be a hard time for you, cry and let it all out, allow yourself to grieve. Sending lots of love xx

[Hidden in reply to F_J_762301]

Thank u so much lovely. This time im having a hard time to let it out. Its just stuck in my throat x im tonite with ppl that dont know abt my journey so maybe it comes when alone. X

[Shamu5678]

So sorry to read this Mimi. Sending hugs x

[Hidden in reply to Shamu5678]

Thank u so much lovely x

[feminist]

I am so sorry to hear this Mimi. I feel heartbroken for you. So unfair. Take good care of yourself, lots of love xxx

[Hidden in reply to feminist]

Thank u so much hun. Means alot x

[Georgie17]

I am so sorry, this is just so unfair. I have been through an early miscarriage and waited for it to happen naturally which was not easy. Take care of yourself xx

[Hidden in reply to Georgie17]

Yes it's so bloody unfair isn't it one minute being pregnant and then the next it's snatched away in a cruel manner!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

As a religious person its hard to argue against gods will but it hurts x

[Hidden in reply to Georgie17]

Thank u georgie luv. I never thought i would say it but i want it out of me and move on and put this behind me. I hope u are ok x

[OlsonM]

So very sorry ❤️ Can’t begin to imagine what you’re going through. Xxx

[Hidden in reply to OlsonM]

Thanks hun. I hope u are in a better space. Just heartbroken x

[Hidden]

That's so not fair is it when you are looking forward to having a baby and then its snatched away like that!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Heartbroken hun. And of course surrounded by all pregnant women that are abt to pop. Just tiered x

[hifer]

I’m so so sorry to read this. I have been through this and know exactly what you’re going through. I can only tell you that time does make things easier. Sending you lots of love and take as much time as you need to grieve. Xx

[Hidden in reply to hifer]

Thanks hun. It took me a good few weeks with the CP. i dont know how long this one will take x its just that feeling that it might never happen. Hope u are ok xx

[Patches86]

I’m so so sorry, that is heartbreaking. So unfair to have that initial happiness taken from you. Thinking of you x

[Hidden in reply to Patches86]

Thank u lovely. We sign up for this and yet are heartbroken when we hit a wall. X hope u are well

[Lou9]

So so sorry 😢 xx

[Luna_79]

Oh Mimi so sorry to read this , it’s just so so hard, to have got your BFP and had you 6 week scan for this yo happen, I’m so so sorry for your loss xx

[Janop79]

I’m so so sorry! I was really hoping for you that all would be OK. So unfair. So cruel.

I’m still experiencing some symptoms although it hasn’t started yet. I also decided to take the natural route.

Please look after yourself. Sending love and hugs xxx

[Oumichka2015]

Hello Mimi,

Really sorry to read this.

I can imagine how hard it is for you, at the moment, absolutely heartbreaking.

I wish you a lot of strength and there is hope.

Take care of yourselves.

😘😘😘

[Ranchu90]

I am so so sorry 🥺 it is heartbreaking 💔 I don’t have wise words now ... but at least I wanted to tell you to be strong and think that it was still a big progress to reach that stage. I am sure next time you will reach the finish line.

Sending you lots of love and a big hug 💕 🤗

[Hidden in reply to Ranchu90]

U are absolutely right. I think im a bit stronger than with my first loss. But i got my moments. I hope that the next round is the round for all my ivf sisters because this is just unbearable xx hope you ok x

[Picalilli99]

I’m so sad to read this Mimi. We have experienced similar, after seeing a heartbeat at 6 weeks only for it to be gone 2 weeks later. Absolutely devastating, my heart breaks for you 💔. Sending love and healing hugs at this really difficult time. Take care lovely and know that we are all here for you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank u lovely. Only you guys know how it feels i suppose. The dusting your self up and moving on is a bit easier knowing so many wonderful ivf mommies have done it before x hope u ok x

[Sammy246]

I'm so sorry to read this. Life throws so much hurdles at us sometime. Praying you do see light on this struggling and painful journey. Sending you hugs xx

[Hidden in reply to Sammy246]

Thank you darling. Really appreciate it x hope you ok x

[Ivf2020A]

I am so sorry you are going through this xx thinking of you and sending 💓 your way . Xx

[Hidden in reply to Ivf2020A]

Thanks lovely. I hope ur scan went well xx

[Ivf2020A in reply to Hidden]

It went ok thank u x be extra kind to yourself x

[Peanutchips]

I’m so so sorry Mimi. I hope you are doing ok. It’s so heartbreaking and unfair. I’m going through a similar thing at the moment. Here if you want to talk xxx

[Khess124]

Oh mini I’m so gutted to see this 😭 I hope your doing okay with what’s going on you can always message me if you need to talk or vent xx