9dpt5dt headaches

[Jessy1280]

Think af is on its way. 😔 Mildly aching ovaries and a headache. Keep waking and going to bed with a stuffy nose. I've no symptoms like the one which gave me my bfp last cycle. After my BFN 7dpt5dt I know in my heart I'm out this cycle

Why does this have to be so damn hard when there's literally nothing wrong with me 😢

How does everyone keep going? It's pretty soul destroying x

[ttcemmie]

I hear you Jessy. Sorry to hear you're thinking it's negative, but you never really know until the result. Agree, it shouldn't have to be this hard. Really hoping it turns positive for you. Sending lots of love xxxx

[Jessy1280 in reply to ttcemmie]

Thanks Emmie. I just feel when you know, you know. It's a tough journey and hard to remain positive after 3 failed cycles. I know many have done many more than me. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever get there again. Baby dust to us all x

[ttcemmie in reply to Jessy1280]

It's all hard. IVF is a horrible horrible journey for everyone involved, not just the ones who have had it worse than others.... I'm probably not the best one for bringing you up right now; I also wonder what it's all for, but I agree baby dust for all xxxx

[Florencenightingale]

You're not out just yet Jessy! Lots of women have no symptoms, every pregnancy is different. I feel totally different this time around to my last pregnancy which ended in MC. Stay strong and test on OTD. Wishing you the best of luck xx

[Jessy1280 in reply to Florencenightingale]

Thank you. Congratulations on your bfp! I guess I'm trying not to get my hopes up. This cycle is totally different.

First cycle bad af pains 8dpt5dt bfn

Second cycle mild af pains 5dp5pt bfp but ended in mmc.

This cycle... Absolutely nothing!

Don't know what to make of it other than its failed after bfn 7dpt5dt.

Did you have any symptoms at all this most recent cycle?

Had two embryos transfered this time and after no symptoms like last cycle, can't help but feel it's game over. Been so desperate for this cycle to work after my mmc in December. This is my last self funded cycle. Back up plan is a hatching 5ba and a day 6 4bb in the freezer from cycle 1. First cycle I had better graded embryos than in subsequent cycles x

[Florencenightingale in reply to Jessy1280]

Yeah it's difficult isnt it. I kind of distanced myself for it all emotionally and just focused on what I had to do.

I was tired and snappy lol and getting cramps now and again. If you're taking progesterone that might be the cause for your headaches. I suffer with migraines and it's made mine more frequent and worse. This is my only cycle as we were self funded due to my partner having 2 boys already. My previous pregnancy was natural.

How come you started new cycles if you have good frozzies?

Honestly, dont give up until OTD, positivity really does work wonders xxx

[Jessy1280 in reply to Florencenightingale]

Here in Wales even if your partner has children you're entitled to funded IVF however as he had a vasectomy followed by reversal, this makes us ineligible.

Weve had to do a fresh cycle as our clinic dictates that all 3 cycles have to be used within a year. First cycle I had horrific ohss and had to freeze all. Second cycle bfp except I had mmc at 9 weeks. Didn't leave me long to use up the last cycle x

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You need to stay strong. i know it is not easy. But unfortunately we are sometimes put in situations that we have no control of. It is not an easy road to travel on but you can't blame yourself. This is out of your hands but you must not give up. Sometimes we have to just work harder for something we really want.