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Good evening beautiful ladies,

how are you doing tonight?

I've been reading a few posts during the day, some good news and some less good ones, and I thought I would stop and write you a couple of lines to remind you HOW AMAZING you all are.

I'm quite new to this community, but you have NO IDEA of the MASSIVE difference that YOU GUYS have made while supporting me with your thoughts and care (much needed!!!)

So, first of all I would like to THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart - you're simply fabulous! Even when it's not your day and you could say 'oh F off I don't know her I won't bother helping her' ......you don't. YOU ARE HERE.

And I think this is the most important thing, for us warriors who are fighting the IVF battle/s (and we will win!!!!) - being present and lift each other up. Words can make such a difference, I wish the world would pay more attention to kindness.

So to my ladies who haven't received good news today, and are tired and feel like they can't carry on.....YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I'M HERE. WE ARE HERE. Cry, eat, break dishes, beat hubby up (just kidding!) but once the anger is out, keep BELIEVING.

WE WILL GET OUR BABIES! Women are strong creatures (I mean, would our dear husbands/partners/boyfriends stab themselves each bloody day to grow eggs? or to control hormones? Nope....), we are resilient and caring and kind and loving and sweet...which is why WE grow babies!!!! :)

Ok - that's all :)

Wishing you all a very good and relaxed evening, lots of love and kisses!

MWAH!!!!!

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ChristineB05

What a beautiful message.

It is so true this group has provided me with support and comfort through my darkest hours.

We women are strong, resilient and determined and will realise our dreams.

Thanks again for your message. Wishing you all the best hun 😘😘

in reply to ChristineB05

Thank you Christine, likewise! xxx

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MrsH17

This made me cry 😭

Ha ha ha yesss we would be extinct if men had to make a baby. Lol

My dad always says how powerful woman are and that one day we will rule the world and men won’t need to be apart of it 😂 xxx

in reply to MrsH17

Tell your dad he’s right! 😉😂❤️

Love love love this your such an inspiration and so positive and really make me feel everyday is worth fighting for because your right we are warriors and in one way or another we will get our babies indeed 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Yesssssss!!!! We will! I know I’m stubborn and I’m so happy to see I’m not the only one 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Leesara

Ah what a lovely post. I’ve been on here good few years now and realise the “power” of the forum. Sending you lots of hope and positivity xx

in reply to Leesara

Thank you Hun ❤️

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Mara84

Awwww you made me cry ❤️ Very sweet message ❤️ Wishing you all the best.

in reply to Mara84

Thank you Mara! Wishing you all the best to you too 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀💕💕💕💕

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Mara84 in reply to

Thank you ❤️😘❤️😘

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Italy300618

So lovely to read a post like this, and so true. This forum is so supportive I dont know what I'd do without it 😘😘 xxx

in reply to Italy300618

Me too xxx ❤️

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RhinoCat

A timely word , feels just like 🍯 honey . Thank you sweet Issy .

Kindness is the only thing that eases this pantsy journey .

Hugs right back to you,

And thanks for reminding me to stay connected.

And as poor Caroline Flack stated in Dec ‘ in a world when you can be anything, be kind’.

Thank you fertility network angels 👼🏼

You lift my heart and give me hope , even on the grey days 💖💐😘

Much love,

Rhinocat x 💐

in reply to RhinoCat

Oh Rhino, you always make me cry! 😉so much kindness and care on this forum ❤️It’s absolutely fantastic!

There’s no rainbow 🌈 without the rain ☔️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Xxxx

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Keepingfaith85

❤️

in reply to Keepingfaith85

💕

Thank you for the beautiful message IssyLove ❤️💞

in reply to

Very much deserved xxx ❤️

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Littlepeax

What a lovely inspiring message 🥰🥰🥰 we are amazing!!

in reply to Littlepeax

Yes we definitely are ❤️Have a good day hun x

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Kurstx

Awww what a lovely message ❤️ and very true sending you lots of ❤️ hugs and positive vibes lovely 🥰🥰🥰😘

in reply to Kurstx

Awww thanks Kurstx, back at ya! 🍀🤞🏻❤️

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Kurstx in reply to

Thank you 🥰🥰🥰 xxx

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Lots8788

❤😘 wishing you all the best x x lovely message

in reply to Lots8788

Thank you so much lots 💕to you too 🍀🤞🏻

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PurplePiggie

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, this forum is amazing as are you, so supportive, WE CAN DO THIS!! 😘😘❤️

in reply to PurplePiggie

WE CAN AND WE ARE ❤️and trust me one day we’ll be complaining because the baby doesn’t sleep doesn’t eat and we haven’t showered in a week ahahahah 🍀🤞🏻❤️

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PurplePiggie in reply to

Haha yep! 🤞😍 x

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Michael30

What a lovely message to write and so sweet and so true! Sooo wanted I needed to hear tonight too ♥️♥️♥️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻Xxx

in reply to Michael30

Sending you positive vibes ahead of an amazing transfer full of love and luck 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Judy18

I needed this! Thanks you so much for taking the time to write this. We are amazing and this has been a massive support for me.

Much love and hugs to all xxx

in reply to Judy18

You’re very welcome Judy, we can do it 🤞🏻🍀❤️

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CLDxxx

You always make me smile 🤗 thank you 😘xxx

in reply to CLDxxx

Awwwww I’m so glad to make you smile! Have a good day dear ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Catlady12345

Everyone is so strong and I know I’ve really benefitted from all of the advice, posts and spirit lifting thoughts on this forum 💕 x

in reply to Catlady12345

The more I read posts the more I realise how strong we all are - going through hell to purse our dreams of becoming mummies, that’s absolutely amazing! 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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PenneyPots

Oh that’s lush!! Back at you Issy!! Xx

in reply to PenneyPots

Kisses Penney 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

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Kat_15

What a beautiful message. ❤️ Sending you lots of hugs and baby dust. xxx

in reply to Kat_15

Thank you Kat! 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻💕💕💕💕💕

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Picalilli99

Thanks for posting this beautiful message. In a cruel old world we are stronger together ❤️ Xx

in reply to Picalilli99

We are indeed 💋💋💋💋💋sending you hugs & kisses 💕💕💕💕💕💕

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Mmmpudding

Hello Issy you are such an amazing person and I love you. Everyone needs an Issy in their life. Big kiss and good luck with your scan next week. Can’t wait to see your scan pictures. Xx

in reply to Mmmpudding

....7:24am and I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂you’re sooooo sweet 💓and you have literally saved me with the hydromol 😂😂😂😂I’ll keep saying that forever 😂😂😂thank you thank you thank you! 6 days left until scan- nearly there! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀have a good day hun xxx

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ttcemmie

Thanks Issy. I feel the absolute same. This group is amazing and we are all so strong. Thank you for your beautiful message. LOTS OF LOVE! XXX

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JoP32

What a fabulous post! I like you haven’t been a member of this group for very long, but my infertility journey has been long and bumpy like so many others.

I agree, since joining this site and seeing the kindness & support the amazing ladies on here show each other, I feel so much less alone and know that people are here & that they ‘get it’.

This forum is a humongous source of help and I’m really grateful for it.

Thank you for your beautiful message Issy. You’re always so kind and supportive and this post will have resonated with so many!

I hope everything is progressing well with your pregnancy and please let us know how the scan goes! Xxx

in reply to JoP32

Awww thank you Jo you’re so sweet! 🤩❤️I’m well thanks, just a bit anxious as scan day is approaching (next Tuesday)...I hope it will be good news 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻Sending lots of love to you ❤️❤️❤️

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JoP32 in reply to

Yeah, I bet. I will be keeping everything firmly crossed for you! Please let us know how it goes! I’ll be looking out for your post to tell us all is looking good!! 🤞🏻💐🤞🏻💐🌈Sending lots of love back 😁👍 😘xxx

in reply to JoP32

Thank you so much lovely!!! 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

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Core

Thank you so much really needed this today xx

in reply to Core

Hello Core Hun, how are you?💋I looove you ladies and I’m here for you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

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Core in reply to

I’m ok had a down couple of days but I’m sure I’ll be back fighting soon xx

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