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Hi friends

This is my second fet and today is 12 day post transfer and urine pregnancy test is negative again ,my official date for blood test is after two days that's is on Tuesday 4th Feb 2020...

Since I know it's negative can I withdraw my meds.?

Has anyone done that before?

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RhinoCat

Awh 😔 sorry to hear this 😢 sending hugs 💐💖

hope someone can answer your question soon .

Can you ring your clinic?

I’d personally keep at it until the bloods defo confirmed 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I’m an anxious kinda person .

Hopefully our get advice here soon.

Hugs 💖💐💐💐

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Sayusayme in reply to RhinoCat

Thanx dear

Actually I am fed up with the medication and since it's second fet not working..really got bored ,fed up...no hope left with ivf too....

Ya I will wait for two more days but I know it's a failure..

And I feel like a looser and you know what...

am so tired of hearing bad news and with my negative emotions along with this ivf which has given me...

Totally.....

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RhinoCat in reply to Sayusayme

Bless your heart 😞

It is just not easy 😢

Sending massive hugs 💐💖💐💐💐

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CLDxxx

Hey lovely,

Sorry to hear this 😔 however with your official date being Tuesday I would keep taking the meds as you just never know, things can change and I really hope they do for you.

Sending love 💗 xxx

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Sayusayme in reply to CLDxxx

Thanx dear

Will try to stay on medication

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KiboXX

I would definitely stay on medication until after the blood test. My clinic told me I could home test two days before but to stay on medication until bloods.

I’d stay on them today and check in with the clinic tomorrow x

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ttcemmie

On my last BFN my clinic said I can stop taking the meds, but I hadn't got my period yet so I wanted to keep taking the progesterone just in case, so I did for a couple of days and then came off it and got my period. I just needed that extra time to come to terms with it. However, if you're having a blood test on Tuesday, I'd probably wait until after that anyway (just in case).

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Sayusayme in reply to ttcemmie

Hi thanx dear

Yes sure will wait

Just that I got fed up and bored ,torn and hopeless with ivf ... And with so much negativity inside me since ivf failure last time and this time again ...don't know when it will end and how to cure it ...

.....

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ttcemmie in reply to Sayusayme

We all get so beaten down by this journey that it's hard to be positive all the time! I would say I'm definitely negative more than positive on this journey. Sadly. Sorry to hear you're having a tough time of it at the moment. It is hard to keep hope, but we're wishing you all the best.

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Chantysal

Dont give up i did two ivfs and got pregnant on third and now trying for a second baby on my third try and hopeful. Keep trying u will get there and stay positive

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Cinderella5

Hey hun, I'm so sorry you've had a BFN. My clinic say day 12 for a urine but if its negative to keep going and retest on day 14. Completely your decision though! Hugs.xx

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry that your test was negative. Such a crushing feeling. Last time our clinic advised to continue taking the meds. I was so fed up that I just wanted to stop, but in the end thought I may as well keep going just in case. See how you feel. Sending you huge hugs at this difficult time ❤️xxx

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Sayusayme in reply to Picalilli99

😔😔😔

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MrsH17

Hey I know how you feel I really wanted to stop mine when I knew it hadn’t worked but they clinic said not to and that I would be silly if I did. There is still a chance that it has worked as frozen can take longer to implant. I know they are awful things but I would stay on them xxx

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DafE

I'm so sorry to read that things are looking a bit tough. I hope you do keep on with your meds 🤞. I was looking you up as I think our transfer day was the same. I'm booked in for a blood test tomorrow. After so many negative pregnancy tests I won't dare look at or take one again 🙈 I'll keep everything crossed for you for Tuesday xxx

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Sayusayme in reply to DafE

All the best ...even I have test on Tuesday and I know it's negative but will update you all the report..

You also do the same and hope all go well with you

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DafE in reply to Sayusayme

Just a quick update from my bloods today. Big fat negative 🙄

Hoping it's a good outcome for you tomorrow 🤞

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Sayusayme in reply to DafE

So sorry to hear this hunny 😢😢

Please take care of yourself.

And

I will join you officially tomorrow with my negative blood report...

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