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I already knew myself it hadn't worked by had it confirmed today. I had a feeling this wouldn't work as the cycle didn't run as smoothly as last time....so for now well take a break over xmas and go again in the new year.

Its our 4 year wedding anniversary tomorrow which also marks 4 years since we started trying for a baby... Hopefully this is the last one without a baby :(

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Justwaiting

I’m sorry to hear lovely!

It’s just never easy no matter how much you try to prepare yourself!

Take care of yourself ❤️❤️

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aamiller405 in reply to Justwaiting

Thank you x

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3005

So sorry... it’s such a tough road!

Like you say try and relax, enjoy Christmas and New Year and start a fresh.

Take care of yourself, sending lots of love x

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aamiller405 in reply to 3005

Thank you x

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Livinginhope2019

I’m so sorry, sending you a big hug. Happy anniversary for tomorrow xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to Livinginhope2019

Thank you x

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Lots8788

So sorry to hear that hun. Lots of hugs to you. Hope you can enjoy Christmas and the new year and then be ready for the next cycle x x

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aamiller405 in reply to Lots8788

Thanks xo

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to hear about you BFN. I felt like that too about my last cycle, just wasnt feeling it for some reason. I hope you can plan something nice to do for your anniversary. Hugs.xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you.. Hope you're doing OK xo

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Cinderella5 in reply to aamiller405

Im alright ta! Bit fed up with treatment and disappointments but plodding on for now!xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Cinderella5

Only thing for it xox

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Lavender96

I’m so sorry. This really is such a tough process to go through. Enjoy taking a break over Xmas and come back relaxed and ready for a fresh start in the New Year. Take care of yourself and Happy Anniversary for tomorrow xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Lavender96

Thank you xo

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this. BFN’s are truly rubbish 💕 xx

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aamiller405 in reply to Lou7744

Thank you xo

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GELL18

So sorry hun... I know how u are feeling coz it happened to us on monday and almost same time trying..

All I can say is sorry and allow your self to grieve and keep your eyes on the hope of a better tomorrow...

I have a high respect for anybody trying and going through infertility... it is a very difficult journey...

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aamiller405 in reply to GELL18

Aw im so sorry and thank you xo

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everhopeful83

So sorry to read this ❤️ I hope you can enjoy your anniversary & your time over the festive period, with a fresh head to start in the new year 💪🏼wishing you lots of luck ✨xxx

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aamiller405 in reply to everhopeful83

Thank you xo

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MrsH17

Sorry to hear it didn’t work for you.

Hope you can both enjoy your anniversary and Christmas.

Fingers crossed for a successful cycle next xxx

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Picalilli99

So sorry to read your post. BFN’s are just so tough! I hope you have been able to do something nice together on your anniversary. Also that you have a nice relaxing break over Christmas and that you are able to come back fighting in January. Big hugs xxxx

Just checked and seen your post. I’m really sorry to read that. I hope you’re doing okay and you enjoy some time off the fertility treadmill. Very best wishes for the new year. X

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aamiller405 in reply to

Thank you.. Im OK thanks just getting on with it.. Yeah going to enjoy the break and start again in the new year.. Hope you're keeping well xo

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sun-and-rain

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