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I am on 8 the day post embryo transfer ,and I see no sign of pregnancy and early morning my dad passed away due to cardiac arrest....😥😥😥

I am losing all my loved ones and feeling hopeless and depressed 😥😥...😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😧😭😭😭

This Life is so painful .....

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Tugsgirl

I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad xx

Oh Sayusayme I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad,do you have any support around you? Xx

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Dreamama

I’m so so sorry for your loss. But in terms of symptoms I just wanted to say that I also didn’t have anything and got but dreamed BFP at day 10. I’m now 23 weeks.

Don’t lose hope, maybe there is a little life inside you who will make things better.

Keep positive. Lots of love and good luck xx

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Rainbowhope

Omg I am so deeply sorry for you. I can't believe your going through such a tough time. You must be devastated. Please try to be kind to yourself in this difficult time. I know you must be heartbroken. I will keep you in my thoughts. X

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Cinderella5

Oh my goodness, I'm so very sorry for your loss! I hope you have lots of people to pull you through this difficult time. Lots of love & hugs.xxx

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CLDxxx

So sorry to hear this 😢

Look after yourself. Sending love xxx

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Core

So so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad particularly at this already difficult time, hope you have lots of support around you xx

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Livinginhope2019

I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Sending you big hugs xx

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Dolly8

I’m so sorry to hear your news. Don’t give up your pregnancy hope just yet. Xxxxxx

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Lorita1984

Oh im so sorry.... Sending you a hug xxx 😔

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Tryagain45

So sorry for the sad loss of your Dad. And there is still time for a BFP so don't loose hope. Remember to lean on those around you for the strength to get through the next few days xx

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Skippy1982

So sorry for losing your Dad, I can’t imagine what you are going through. 😞big hugs and how this transfer brings you some good news xxx

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Sayusayme in reply to Skippy1982

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kitscat

Oh my gosh!!! This is awful. I’m so very sorry. Sending you lots of hugs xxxx

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Faith103

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ xxxx

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Shirazlover2013

I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad, a terrible loss at a very vulnerable time for you. I hope you’ve got a few people close to you for support in the coming weeks. Look after yourself as best you can xx

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Rella22

I’m so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family. This is a terrible tragedy during an already stressful time. Take good care of yourself, easier said than done I know.

Sending you lots of love

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Lots8788

So sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you and sending you lots of love. Hope you have people around you to support you x x

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AliceMoonpie

*Big hug* I wish I could say something to make it better. The 2ww is hard enough without something massive like this happening xx

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Emmaxxx

Oh my goodness. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know what it’s like to loose your dad and it’s absolutely awful, heartbreaking and life changing. I am sending you love and positivity as you never know this could be your time xx

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Purplis

So sorry for the loss of your dad. I truly hope this embie transferred makes a difference. It might just be a bit too early for the signs 💞

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sun-and-rain

I'm so sorry 😢😢😢 I shed a tear for you at this very moment! What you're experiencing is so painful ❤❤❤ Be kind to yourself now ❤❤❤ Hoping that you have enough good people around you with whom you can share the fullness of your pain (not only that your dad passed away)! And also: Remember not everyone have much symptoms of a pregnancy. Don't loose hope until it's proven that it's over... ❤❤❤

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Sayusayme in reply to sun-and-rain

Yes thanx dear

But I just wish I could go back to past and be with my dad or I wish I was never born in this world. Nature is very evil ,it feels no pity for people it does what it wants to do.......am soooo depressed right now......my life is a mess and am not able to solve it and plus my loved ones are all in heaven leaving me alone here......

And nature wants me to cope with this....am sooo angry with God/nature....he is useless 🤧

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sun-and-rain in reply to Sayusayme

There is no reason whatsoever that you should be dealing with this pain alone! If there is no-one around to support you, there should be psychologists available. It seems like you could benefit from seeing one ❤ To sort out thoughts and feelings, what's normal reactions to sorrow and pain, and what's not, and to help you find a way to work through the tough stuff. ❤❤❤ Lots of love and hugs in this time if struggle ❤❤❤

Awww I’m sorry about your dad 😢 we just had our 3rd mc in a row then is mother died of stomach cancer after 2 years of Alzheimer’s aswel then a couple of months later his dad get diagnosed with bowel cancer hopefully on the mend now after surgery. It’s just ongoing sadness & we’re still not pregnant.

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Sayusayme in reply to

Sooo true dear😭😭😭

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Solly-44

I’m so sorry, will be thinking of you xx

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Italy300618

Oh I am so so sorry your poor thing, that is so awful, sending you a big hug xx

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Reer

So sorry to hear about your loss, may the Lord provide you with strength during this difficult time.

X

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Alisha79

I’m so sorry to hear u lost ur dad. It’s very sad 😔. Hugs to u x

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Elynn

So sorry ..loosing your Dad is massive. I hope you have good people in your life to support you. 💐

So sorry to hear about your dad... big hugs x

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Picalilli99

So sorry to hear about your loss. Sending love and hugs xxx

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Stephybivf

So so sorry to read this how absolutely heart breaking 💔. Thinking of you xxx

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