My clinic only allowed me to transfer one good embryo in my first cycle 4ab and I accepted this as it was my first time. I was heartbroken when it failed.
This time, they still won't let me transfer 2 even though I'm nearly 39. I have pleaded with them to no avail. They even have something on their website saying that clients can sign a waiver but they denied this when I challenged them. They said they'd only transfer 2 if my embryos were poor quality. Thing is I won't know til Monday if any have survived or what they've been graded at. Today is day 2 and they've said that they can't give me an update as little would've happened since they fertilised yesterday. I'm so upset and frustrated. Feel like time is running out for me. I'm self funding but I feel I have no control in any of this.
Did any of you guys have a choice how many you transferred?