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I think it might be all over 😔

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Just been to the loo and there is red blood. Not lots but enough.

I wouldn’t be as panicked if it was brown blood.

Thoughts anyone?

I’m waiting on the clinic calling me back but at 5 weeks there’s really nothing they can do x

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Really sorry & hope your clinic phone back soon.

I had bleeding with both full term pregnancies. I lost red fresh blood with clots at 10 weeks with my daughter . I also bled heavily red blood at 7 weeks with my son.

Sometimes women can bleed in pregnancy & go onto to have a healthy baby.

I was advised to bed rest until it stopped by a doctor.

I hope it eases up & all is okay xxx

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Kyell2 in reply to

Thanks Jess. It’s seems to have eased a bit, i’m just a bit worried it’s the start of a period and this is the calm before the period storm. Too early for a scan but they’ll do bloods on Monday and check levels🤞 x

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Fingerscrossed34

Don’t panic I had this at about the same stage and it turned out to be ok. Wait and see what the clinic say. It might not last long and you could be totally fine so try not to panic. It’s horrific I know I had a panic attack and cried for hours and it was all ok. Still randomly get spotting now though it’s always been brown blood since then and scares me every time. I think the important thing is how heavy it is, how long it lasts and if there are cloys. Doesn’t sound too bad at the moment? x

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Kyell2 in reply to Fingerscrossed34

Thank you. That’s reassuring. It does seem to be easing but not entirely convinced it’s not going to start again . Never easy! x

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Fingerscrossed34 in reply to Kyell2

Yeah I’m 8 weeks now nearly 9 and baby had a heartbeat and was on track for growth last they checked and that was after my bleed. I mentioned it to the midwife yesterday she didn’t bat an eye lid it happens to lots of people. Just have to cross your fingers and hope it settles down. If it is something worse then there’s absolutely nothing you can do, nothing you can do either way so just try as hard as it is to relax, have a lie down stay hydrated and and distract yourself somehow. x

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Kyell2 in reply to Fingerscrossed34

Thank you. So glad it worked out well for you.

They’re going to check my bloods on Monday for reassurance so I’ll just have to wait it out as it’s another 2 weeks then until first scan x

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Fingerscrossed34 in reply to Kyell2

Yeah the waiting is always so hard. Good luck! Look after yourself. x

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Nicivfjourney

Hope everything turns out okay! ❤️

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Kyell2 in reply to Nicivfjourney

Thank you 😊 x

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Noah1981

Hope things work our darling 🤞🤞🤞🤞 xxx

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Kyell2 in reply to Noah1981

Thanks, hope the 2WW is going ok for you x

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crisps88

Hope things are ok! Not had this experience but reading other ladies comments I hope will give you reassurance xxx

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Kyell2 in reply to crisps88

Thank you x

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Dreamingofbaby

Hey ahh can imagine that such a worry. I constantly knicker check for things like that and know would scare me to. Hope all is ok and just one those things like ppl say. Everything crossed all ok xx

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Kyell2 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thanks. Seems to have stopped, just hope it doesn’t restart. Hope you are doing ok waiting for the first scan x

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to Kyell2

That good it stopped. Hope continues to be ok. Yep feels like a long waiting game esp when having all sorts of symptoms and hard to know if good or not sometimes🤦‍♀️. Take good care xx

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Cinderella5

Oh Kyell, such a worry! Gald to hear that its settled a bit. Got everything crossed that all is ok. Hope you get good news on Monday with your bloods. Hugs.xx

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Kyell2 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you.

Seems to have stopped and wasn’t heavy, was such a shock and I just wasn’t expecting it.

Luckily I got my favourite nurse who calmed me down and even said she’d scan me on Monday if I wanted but it was too early really so I said no.

Hope you are doing ok x

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Cinderella5 in reply to Kyell2

Awww your clinic sound amazing!! Hang on in there!!xx

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aamiller405

Hope all works out OK xo

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Kyell2 in reply to aamiller405

Thank you. Hope you are well x

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Tiddly1984

Doesn’t sound like it’s over to me Kyell2. I wouldn’t conclude you’ve miscarried based on what you’ve described. Try to stay hopeful. Praying for you...x

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Kyell2 in reply to Tiddly1984

Aw thank you x

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Lorry1984

Hi.

Sorry to hear you're having a worrying time. How are you now? Has the bleed stopped?

I had a pink then brown bleed on Wednesday which lasted about half a day and just like you I panicked and assumed the worst as I've been here twice before at 5 weeks and it didn't end wellI. I had bloods done on Wednesday (5,100) and then again today (12,000) so I'm feeling a little reassured. My clinic are surprised at how high my levels are and now want to scan me next week when I'll only be 6 weeks to "check that everything is where it should be". Now Im worrying that they're too high and there's a problem. It's such a rollercoaster of emotions and the worry is never-ending. 🙈

I know everyone's situation is different but I wanted to share my story with you to let you know that I've also had a bleed about the same time as you and at the moment all still seems to be well.

Hope you're ok. Take it easy and keep your faith. xxx

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Kyell2 in reply to Lorry1984

It does seem to have stopped and it didn’t last long and it wasn’t too much blood so trying to forget it for the weekend.

I’m going to have bloods on Monday to see how HCG level is now but I’m feeling a bit more positive after all the lovely stories you ladies shared.

I hope your scan goes well (it appears it’s never going to be simple on this journey!) xx

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Lolepops

Hi please don’t panic as I had it at the same time . Quite a bit and bright red blood . It happened again about 5 days later . I just assumed it was over . I had an early scan and I’ve got a hematoma around the fetus (basically a blood clot). They still said I could bleed . I am about 8.5 weeks just waiting for the clinic scan next week but basically it’s not over as yet . Please don’t think the worst . I made myself sick with it. See if you can get an early scan even though they couldn’t see much they saw the sac then a week later they could see a heartbeat x x

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Kyell2 in reply to Lolepops

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Sounds like you’ve had quite the time of it. 🤞 that your next scan goes well xx

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Lolepops in reply to Kyell2

Thank you xx really hope you manage to get some reassurance. Big hugs I know just how awful it feels xxx

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