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Transfer not going ahead today

Kat_15
Kat_15
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Hi lovely ladies. Thank you again for all your kind, thoughtful messages. It really has helped to keep me going and feel a little less alone.

We received a call from one of the embryologists this morning and sadly she said only one of our four embies is developing as they would hope. She said they hope our transfer can go ahead with this one tomorrow but there is a chance it may not be viable.

Really trying to keep positive and praying for a miracle but my heart is breaking a little bit at the moment.

I hope tomorrow brings good news. xxx ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿคžโค๏ธ

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Im so sorry, I know how devastating those calls can be! Really hoping your little fighter is ok tomorrow. Massive hugs.xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks so much Cinderella. Itโ€™s such an emotional rollercoaster isnโ€™t it?! I think the embryology teams are such special people, it must be so hard to make those calls. Sending you big hugs back too. xx ๐Ÿค—

Cinderella5
Cinderella5 in reply to Kat_15

Its horrible, we lost all of our embryos on one cycle and we just werent prepared for that at all....didnt even know that could happen! Got my fingers and toes crossed....come on little embie....grow!!xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Cinderella5

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear that. Must have been devastating for you both. ๐Ÿ˜ข

We have gone through two lots of stimulation to get these four embies so it feels like this transfer stage has been a long time coming.

Keeping all my toes and fingers crossed. xx

Cinderella5
Cinderella5 in reply to Kat_15

It was tough, we did better on our next two cycles and got 3 blastocysts out of 2 cycles after taking DHEA but no pregnancy. We are now onto using DE so hoping success isnt too far away now! This whole thing is so bloody tough. Let us know how you get on!xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Cinderella5

Thatโ€™s good that you had more success with other cycles. Iโ€™m keeping everything crossed for you and praying for your little miracle. Youโ€™re so strong and inspirational. Sending big hugs. xxx

Oh Iโ€™m so sorry to hear this. Such sad news. Aw I really am, but not all is lost. Itโ€™s easier for us to say of course. But the fact you have one little fighter is all you need and you hear of people on here saying they had the same or less and getting such a positive result. Iโ€™m so sorry this is happening to you and your OH. Please keep in knowledge to be like to yourself. Xxxxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to crisps88

Thanks so much for your thoughtful message. I think it just came as such a shock as I was convinced it would go ahead today. Praying that our one little fighter develops to Blastocyst stage. ๐Ÿคž xxx

I've got everything crossed for that little embryo ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿปx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Kitcat12

Thanks so much for your kind message KitCat. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคžxx

Such a shame hon, but it's not over yet, we're all urging that last little embie to keep going. Really hope it's good news for you tomorrow xxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Aww thank you, youโ€™re right. We need to keep positive and keep everything crossed that our little embies does what it needs to over night. xxx

Hope all goes well ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Myeggs

Thank so much Lorrie. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿคž

So sorry to hear this Kat, you must be devastated. This is such a tough and emotional journey. Praying that your little embie is a fighter and will be ready for transfer tomorrow ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Poppy_2018

Thanks for your kind message Poppy. It really is, tests you to your limits doesnโ€™t it? Thank you, I really appreciate it. ๐Ÿคž๐ŸŒˆ xx

Poppy_2018
Poppy_2018 in reply to Kat_15

It definitely does, but we somehow find the strength to continue. We will get our little miracle, hoping your little embie is yours ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿคžxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Poppy_2018

Aww thanks so much. ๐Ÿ˜โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿคžxx

Oh Kat I'm sorry only one is developing as hoped! Keeping everything crossed this one makes it!! X

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to LaurajaneF

Thanks so much Laura Jane for your thoughtful message. I really appreciate it. Wishing you all the best for your EC. ๐Ÿคž๐ŸŒˆ xx

Rooting for you and the little embie! ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป ๐Ÿ€ ๐ŸŽข

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Gueritarubia

Thanks so much for your kind message. So sorry to read about your recent experience too. Sending hugs and wishing you all the best for your onward IVF journey. xx

So sorry to read this, got everything crossed for you for tomorrow ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ€โœจ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผโœจxxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to everhopeful83

Thanks so much for your thoughtful message. I really appreciate it. Wishing you all the best for your IVF journey too. xx ๐Ÿคž๐ŸŒˆ

everhopeful83
everhopeful83 in reply to Kat_15

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผxxx

It only takes one so letโ€™s all hope that this one is a fighter and your special one xxxx so sorry about the others. This journey is so hard xxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Scarlett13

Thanks so much for your lovely message, I really appreciate it. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. How are you feeling? xxx

Scarlett13
Scarlett13 in reply to Kat_15

Nervous!!!!!!! X

Literally willing that little embie on. So sad and angry for you the other three didn't make it, but if there is one thing I've learnt with IVF rock bottom can quickly be brighter news the next day so don't give up hope yet. Good luck xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Daisy1245

Thanks so much Daisy. Your words make me feel stronger, thank you. โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ’ชVery wise advice. Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for your two week wait xx

Hi Kat, how aweful. I know exactly what you're feeling like. We lost all our eggs from our last fresh cycle. It can be extremely hard to deal with after all the energy you put into getting to that point to then lose it all at the end.

Let's hope that your embie hangs in and continues to develop. I'll be thinking of you.

Xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Good1hannah

Thanks so much Hannah for your kind message. So sorry to hear about your eggs from your last drag cycle. That must have been heart breaking for you. Many congrats on your BFP! ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŸ So pleased for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. xx

Oh no.. Everything crossed for that little fighter xo

That โ€˜oneโ€™ could be the golden egg. I know exactly how tough it is and got tears in my eyes writing this. Think positive and tomorrow I pray you get your good news ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ€

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Hope76

Aww thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words. I really hope youโ€™re right. โ˜บ๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŸWishing you all the best with your onward IVF journey. xxx

Iโ€™m praying this is your time xx good luck darling xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Noah1981

Thank you so much for your kind message. I really appreciate it. Sending you big hugs too. ๐Ÿค—Wishing you lots of luck for your onward IVF journey. xxx

Praying you get good news tomorrow Kat!

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Rella22

Thanks so much Rella for your lovely message. Wishing you all the best for your onward journey and sending you hugs. xx

Heya Hun. So sorry to hear this. Really hope all is well for tomorrow to go ahead. Everything crossed for u๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž feels v unfair. All here for u Hun though sorry couldnโ€™t message until now xx

Thanks so much for your lovely message hon. ๐Ÿ˜˜ It was such a shock this morning, I really thought my transfer was going to happen today. The one which is at pre-blastocyst stage is doing well but the embryologist said she couldnโ€™t say for definite if it would be viable for transfer tomorrow. Iโ€™m just praying and hoping overnight that our little embryo gets to the right stage. How are you doing? xxx

Oh lots of hopes for u Hun. Really hope it continues to develop well so u can transfer ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

Am ok ta. Been back from the clinic and booked to start again when start my next cycle so exciting but nervous. See what happens this time. Never straight forward but hey

Be thinking of u and hoping ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Let us know xx

Thanks lovely.

Wishing you all the best for your next cycle. Iโ€™m keeping everything crossed that this is your time. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ’ช๐ŸŒˆ

Thanks so much for your support, it really does mean a lot.

Speak soon xxx

Fingers crossed for the one ๐Ÿคž I had two cycles with only one to transfer. Unfortunately they didnโ€™t work but my third cycle did (it made a huge difference going from NHS to a private clinic). I know itโ€™s a blow but donโ€™t give up xxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Lowamh

Thanks so much for your kind message and wise words. I really appreciate you sharing your experience. Many congrats on your BFP! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŸ xx

Lowamh
Lowamh in reply to Kat_15

Our cycle that worked was from poorer quality embryos and we never had any to freeze. Where are you having treatment? I havenโ€™t heard of such strict NHS criteria before x

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Lowamh

Thanks for sharing your experience. We are being treated in a clinic in London. I think it was because my AMH level was just within the criteria that they set these conditions. If we donโ€™t the go ahead tomorrow, I think I will push for a fresh transfer next time. xx

Lowamh
Lowamh in reply to Kat_15

Hopefully you will get a transfer tomorrow ๐Ÿคžand feel free to contact me if you would like any more info (thereโ€™s more in my bio)

Oh Kat Iโ€™m so sorry ๐Ÿ˜” Really hoping you get some good news tomorrow and get to go ahead with your transfer. Xx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Solly-44

Thanks so much for your kind message Solly. Wishing you all the best with your upcoming FET. xx

Fingers crossed for tomorrow xxx

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to GoingMental

Thanks so much for your kind message. Many congrats on your BFP! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. xxx ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒŸ

Hope everything is ok tomorrow. Sending good vibes!

Kat_15
Kat_15 in reply to Kempton

Thanks so much, I really appreciate your kind message. xx

So sorry to hear your news Kat, I know how hard it is waiting for the dreaded call you feel sick and worry hey, it only takes one though & this little one could be the fighter that ends up being transferred & resulting in a BFP for you, I know itโ€™s hard but fingers crossed this one keeps developing another day can make a positive difference. I will b keeping everything crossed for you. Xx ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿคž

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