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Unknown location of pregnancy! ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

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Thankyou to everyone that was rooting for me today.

Sadly as suspected I most definitely passed my embryo/s at 4am this morning.

I spent 6hrs in A&E being fobbed off... they wasnโ€™t willing to scan me or check HCG etc

They said it was there job to keep me alive and I would have to wait for an appointment from the EPU๐Ÿ™„ but I persisted... name dropped my consultant quite a bit and was eventually scanned by the gynaecologist team leader.

My saving grace is that my private care consultant is the infertility specialist at this hospital and they all work within his NHS team.

I just needed to know what the situation was albeit bad news.

No pregnancy recognised in the womb or ectopic.

Iโ€™m a bit numb at present as when we began this journey I didnโ€™t anticipate the additional hurdles after getting my initial BFP.

This most definitely isnโ€™t the end of the road for us yet... as expensive as it has been... we still have 3 Frosties.

Iโ€™ll let you all know when where ready to get going again... I would start tomorrow if I could ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Anyway best of luck to you all wherever you are on this rollercoaster and thanks so much for sharing all of your experiences, advice and kind words.

๐Ÿ˜‡โค๏ธ

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That's a bloody disappointment having that happen even though you instinctively know it's going to be bad news it's still a blow when you find out for definite.

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Rella22

Iโ€™m so deeply sorry to hear that Mushy. Iโ€™m sending you lots of love. Get some much needed TLC and praying for success on your journey โค๏ธ

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Solly-44

Iโ€™m so sorry, this is just heartbreaking. Take your time to process whatโ€™s happened, and look after yourself. Like you say, this definitely isnโ€™t the end of the road for you.

Sending you lots of love xx

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Noah1981

Gutted when I read these type of stories but I wish you all the very best in your recovery period and most definetly going forward in your journey take care of each other and I look forward to hearing your updates real soon xxx

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Stephybivf

PM you. Iโ€™m absolutely gutted for you ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’” xxxxxxx

I am so very sorry for your loss. Many of us here sadly know this pain some more than others. I know no words can make this easier but know I am thinking of you & hope you have plenty of support around you xxx

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Cinderella5

I am so so sorry! I had the same at 6wks. It's so crushing & devastating.๐Ÿ’” Sending lots of love & hugs. Hold onto each other tightly!xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm sorry it wasn't better news for you hon. Take care of yourself and take as much time as you need - your frosties aren't going anywhere xxx

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Drives

So sorry to read this ๐Ÿ’œ sending lots of love x x

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Lou7744

Iโ€™m so so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs ๐Ÿ’• xx

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Rainbowhope

I'm so sorry. I know exactly what you mean about not expecting any hurdles after u get s BFP. I recently got a chemical pregnancy so I kind of understand how u feel. But good for you f9r having the right attitude. Yes, you must keep going. Your day time will come. X

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Shelleybean

So so sorry, itโ€™s truly heartbreaking isnโ€™t it. Sending you massive hugs ๐Ÿ’• Look after yourself xx

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Bridget_rose

So sorry to hear this ๐Ÿ˜ข. Big hugs, thinking of you xxx

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mushy19

Morning ladies thnx again for your lovely msgs๐Ÿ˜Šbig hugs bk to you all.

Itโ€™s the Morning after the day before... and Iโ€™ve woken up feeling totally lost. Had a little sob into my pillow before making a very strong coffee โ˜•๏ธ

Iโ€™ve now stopped taking my progesterone which became apart of my morning routine.

I did stop to think โ€˜what if...โ€™ as the hospital did say they would ring with HCG results but Iโ€™m a realist so I wonโ€™t allow myself to hang onto false hope... whatโ€™s the likelihood of a miracle happening and finding the location of a 6 pregnancy. None I reckon.

Anyway for those that have experienced similar how soon did you start your next cycle? Do you think FET are more successful? I have read that somewhere in the past. Iโ€™ve just got So many questions... ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

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Hey i had PUL over easter, it took my cycle 6 weeks to come back. My hormones went a bit awol at this time so my only recommendation is to relax as much as possible! Ive been looking at reflexology, which is supposedly a good thing to do around this time xx

Iโ€™m so sorry! Unfortunately many of us here know this pain really well. It's not easy but Time will help you to process whatโ€™s happened.

In my clinic you've to wait one cycle before doing the FET.

Take care of yourself. Best of luck on your journey!

Sending you a big Hugโค๏ธ

xx

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Elynn

So sorry, hope you have good people around you x

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GELL18

Heart broken for you... this process is just too painful and takes a lot out of a person. Continue holding on to hope.

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