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Hello amazing ladies. I hope you’re all in a good place today.

So I’m 9dp5dt (hoping that’s the correct terminology!). Got HCG bloods on Monday morning. I’ve got all the classic progesterone symptoms so no idea what the outcome is going to be. But getting so anxious and very aware that I’m going to be at work Monday lunchtime when the clinic rings with our results. Would you expect a urine HPT to be accurate at 10dp5dt? Don’t know whether to do one tomorrow morning to prepare myself. I know I should wait until Monday!

I’m so so exhausted at the moment (progesterone again!) that it’s getting harder and harder to get through the next few days.

I have made a list of all the lovely things I’m going to do if it’s negative (which I guess I’m expecting tbh). Starting with an espresso martini and booking a holiday to Italy!

Advice and wise words much appreciated!

xxx

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Stephybivf

Hi Bridget, hope your ok. I’ve done a test every day since Sunday and my official test date isn’t till this Sunday #serial tester 🙈🙈🙈 it should be pretty accurate xx good luck if you do one xxx

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Bridget_rose in reply to Stephybivf

Thanks so much! How are you getting on? xx

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Stephybivf in reply to Bridget_rose

Ok, my tests have come back positive but I’m just so exhausted and my boobs are soooo sore. I’ve been in work all week but luckily I’m off today and I’ve done nothing I’m that tired. X

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Bridget_rose in reply to Stephybivf

Congratulations that’s amazing! So happy for you! I feel the same but convinced it’s just the progesterone. Every time I go to the loo I’m convinced my period will have come! (Too much info I know! 🙈) x

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Stephybivf in reply to Bridget_rose

Awh thanks so much. I just can’t believe it and I don’t think I will until I have a scan.

I know what you mean! I keep expecting the same!! I’ll keep absolutely everything crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞 xxx

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Bridget_rose in reply to Stephybivf

My husband doesn’t want me to test until Monday! I’m very undecided... x

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Stephybivf in reply to Bridget_rose

It’s really hard isn’t it because you want to prepare yourself either way. Xx good luck whatever you decide to do lovely 😘😘

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mushy19 in reply to Stephybivf

Hi Stephybivf

What date is your scan? I’ve still got another 2.5weeks to go 😩

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Stephybivf in reply to mushy19

Hey, I’m not sure. My OTD is Sunday and then the nurse said she will ring me and let me know when I have to go in for a scan. Im presuming it will be around another 3 weeks?

Oh gosh! Every step of this process is so stressful isn’t it. How are you feeling xx

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mushy19 in reply to Stephybivf

I’m in limbo lol... I got 20 more days to go until scan.

Hopefully your clinic isn’t as booked up as mine and give you a 4 week wait.

I just decided to enjoy being pregnant whatever our fate tbh.

All the best until we get some updates in the next few weeks x

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Stephybivf in reply to mushy19

It will probably be the longest 2-3 weeks EVER! We’ve got this far so I’m sure we can wait a little bit longer ☺️ Keep us posted with how your scan goes 😘😘

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mushy19

Oooh I couldn’t resist... I tested early, the wait drove me insane

Tested 4dpt BFN

Retested 7dpt-12dpt BFP I became addicted to testing... only to be given another 4 weeks to wait until viability scan 😣

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Bridget_rose in reply to mushy19

Congrats on your BFP! I’ve got cramps just like before I get my period so convinced it’ll be a BFN 😫. Don’t know whether to put myself out of my misery or give myself a few more days of not knowing. What’s worse?! 🙈 x

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mushy19 in reply to Bridget_rose

Thnkyou... I still can’t believe it...

Test when your ready and strong enough to receive the results either way.... I was in bits 4dpt although I knew it was too early but I just couldn’t control my emotions.

But Let’s be positive... I reckon that’s your BFP!!! ✨✨✨Sending Lots of baby dust to you x

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hannahding

Hey, congratulations to you. That is just amazing news. I am sure that must be so exciting for you. Just make sure to take care of yourself. Eat well! Also, stay hydrated. I hope things go smoothly.

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Scarlett13

I would totally do it tomorrow so you have the weekend to deal with the news. I couldn’t get the result at work personally, and at 10dp5dt you’ll def get a correct result from a FRER x

Hey I’m in the same boat. Due to test on Monday and half of me is enjoying the fact I ‘might be’ pregnant at the moment and doesn’t want that to end. The other half is so anxious that it’s a BFN- I too really have no idea. I was thinking I might test Sunday (10dpt)... just terrified to actually test at the same time... 😬😬

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It’s so nice when someone is in the same boat! The thing that scares me most is actually doing the urine test and that few minutes before looking at it! 😱 I’d much rather someone just tells me! But the more I think about it the more I don’t want to be totally devastated on Monday at work. I’ve got a busy day... Aaaargh. Might do it this afternoon... Good luck for Sunday/Monday!

Yes I know what you mean. I’m working Monday afternoon so would have a bit of time but it would be better to know before. Remember first urine of the day is supposed to be the most accurate so you may want to do it in the morning. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you!

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