I’m 9dp5dt and the brown spotting that I really hoped was implantation bleeding has turned into AF. This is the first time I have bled before OTD. Really thought this might be our time with 2 blastos. 4th failed cycle 😢 heart broken 💔 at 40yrs old not sure of our next plan. Need some time out to recover. So frustrating to have no known cause of our infertility. Thanks for all your support, good luck to everyone. 🤗 xx
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Oh Gemmy I am so so sorry to read this. I hope you do take time to heal and do get your miracle xx
Thank you 😢 x
So sorry to read this 😥 sending you lots of love. Take care of yourself lovely x x x
I am so sorry. Take some time out to think of how you want to move forward. Sending you lots of love... You know we are all here xx
So so sorry to be reading this must be so hard I can’t imagine what your feeling right now don’t give up hun stay strong and rest yourself xx
Thank you. Good luck for OTD. X
Tested again this morning BFN tomorrow is OTD but don’t have much hope now as had some blood this morning xx
I’m sorry to hear this. But I have heard stories in here of women who have bleed and still got a BFP. I know it’s hard to hold hope at this stage. But if your bleeding isn’t heavy the only way to know if to wait till OTD. Xx
I can’t see much difference in a day didn’t even have a faint line for a bit of hope deep down I know it’s over now but thank you Hun xx
It’s so hard. And not much I can say to make you feel better. Is this your first cycle? We do get strong again. Just need time out to recover xxx
I had an ectopic in 2008 and left it so this is the 2nd we have an embryo frozen but I can’t think about what to do next sorry to you too Hun xx
You need time out before you know what to do next. I’m the same at the moment. I’m not ready to give up but don’t know what path to take. I do like to have a plan but will take a few weeks out. Xx
Very sorry to read this. How many embryos did you transfer in total? At your age, 15-20% of blastocysts are normal, hence you might need to transfer the equivalent of 6 blastocysts or more to have a shot, which might give you an idea of how many rounds you need to make.
Thanks for the info. That’s interesting to think about. We had two this time and one last cycle. Only had 3 blastos over all 4 cycles. I want to think it’s worth trying again but lost all hope and strength at the moment. X
Take time to recover, I was devastated after my bfn with 2 blastocysts. Get some rest and make a plan for your next steps.
Thank you. Hope your ok. X
What was your afc if I may ask? May be worth investigating whether your mix of meds is the right one for you. Perhaps if you take a higher dose or a lower dose than what you took so far, you could collect more blastocysts from each cycle. I tend to do well with the max dose of FSH stimulation medicine, while a friend of mine started collecting a lot more eggs and blastocysts when she went on milder stimulation (1/4th of what she used to take initially).
Hi, I had 6 follicles this time, 3 fertilised and 2 blastos. Last cycle we had 12 eggs, 7 fertilised and 1 blasto. They have me on the highest strength stims (Ovaleap). I seem to down reg well and my lining is always good. Obviously an implantation issue. I used injectable progesterone this time which I hoped would help. Maybe poor eggs due to my age. I’ve tried DHEA and melatonin. NK cells normal. Mystery! It’s a decision between going and going and hiring lucky or are we wasting our time cause embryos not viable! 🤷♀️ thanks for the info and I’ll ask on our follow up. I didn’t stimulate well on my first two cycles at a different clinic. xx
So sorry to hear this 😢
I know how ur feeling, my bleeding is horrendous right now.
sending you lots of hugs xx
😞 oh I'm so sorry to see this. Look after yourself x
I am so sorry. This is so painful I have been there too. It doesn’t get any easier. Please take time to look after yourself xxxx big hugs
Aww Im So Sorry Hun Ik how you are Feeling it does Really Break you down 😔 but I Pray to give you the Strength to move Forward and Please Take Care of Yourself, we are all here for You ❤️
So so sorry to hear this. Really feel for you. Definitely have some time out to recover and focus on yourself. Sending big big hugs xx
I'm really sorry to read your news. Did you get any feedback from the clinic embryologist as to how the embryos developed after fertilisation and also why some of them didn't fertilise? Just wondered whether this could give you a bit of a steer for future decisions on whether to continue with own eggs and /or maybe try different drug regime. I know it must be so frustrating when you have put back all your blastocysts to no avail. I hope your consultant can provide some clearer feedback and guidance at your follow up appointment.
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Hi, thanks for your reply. They said the two blastos I had were good. One was much better than the other. Ready to hatch. And a goose grade. They didn’t say why the other didn’t fertilise but did say 50% fertilisation rate was good. I hope things are clearer when we get feedback from them. Hope your well x
This world is so unfair. I’m truly sorry. It hurts like hell. Feel the pain, cry it all out xxx
So sorry to read this, I know how dévastée you must be. Take some time out and hope you’ll find the strength for whatever is next xx
I am sorry to hear this news. You need to restock and take time. Please be kind to yourself. Xxxx
Gutted when I got to read these sort of stories it I truly hope your miracle happens take care of yourself but don’t give up xxx thinking of you xx
I’m gutted for you both, it’s the worst roller coaster ever! xxxxxxxxxxxxx
I am so sorry to hear this! I just failed my 3rd cycle! I don't really know what to do next! xxx
So sorry to hear this and it feels so painful but you must keep hope and faith xxx ❤️ Look after yourself xxx take care
Thanks. Good luck with your next cycle xx
Are you bleeding heavily . ....Did u confirm with doctor it's AF ...Bcoz I too blood 9dpt I thought my periods as come....But when I met doctor they gave me injections to stop bleeding then one week later I got hpt positive.. ...Try confirming with doctor once
Congratulations and thanks for checking. For a few dahs I thought it could be implantation bleeding but it’s full on period now. X
I understand you have gone through very hard road and travelled long ....Diffenetely God will answer your prayers and he will be listening to your cries.. have one thought you will have a baby one day in hand....That day is nearing you .....One day you will post a positive scan report ...That will happen ......Go for a vacation ..I believe if we are happy can conceive naturally....Try going for a vacation when you ovulate ...Let God bless you with natural cycle as a gift for all the struggle you have come through ....Hugs from me
Hi so sorry to hear this, I have also been through 4 failed cycles so can understand your frustration and grief 💔. I hope you have lots of support around you x
So sorry to hear this, sending you love and big hugs during this difficult time xxxxx
Hi Gemmy
I'm sorry to hear that, I've also just got a BFN from my second go. I've decided to take my health into my own hand, to do everything possible to make this happen. I ordered a book called it starts with the egg by Rebecca Fett, there is so much information and I've learnt so much, maybe give it a read it might give you some thing else to look. Good luck on your journey xx
Im really sorry to see your update! Sending big hugs, its so hard.xx
Hi sorry about your news. Is this your first you are trying for? It could be that the embryo just does not implant? Have u carried a baby before? Ever so sorry again just keep on fighting.
Hi thanks for your reply. I haven’t carried a baby before. I haven’t got any children. It seems like that’s the case. But it’s why doesn’t it implant x
So sorry to hear dat I really know how u feel but just take sum time to heal and think about you for now. Sending you lots of pray and warm hugs.