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As expected round 4 bfn

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This morning has confirmed what we already expected bfn.

I have not cried yet and not sure if I will. It’s worrying to say I’m use to this now and maybe have no tears to cry as it’s normal for us to get a bfn. We have been trying for 5 years and no further forward 😟.

Wishing everyone else lots of luck x

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Alb1234

I am so sorry to hear this. This road is so difficult, sending hugs xxx

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Thank you x

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Hollibob

🙁 sorry it’s not worked x

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Thank you x

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After we’d had 3 fresh and 1 fet rounds, but did have 2 miscarriages within that, we asked for honest answers and % chances. We were told 10% with my eggs and 50% with donor, but that didn’t take the miscarriage risks away. There were some hubby issues too, but they always said the egg is more important, as it can bear the weaknesses of sperm..,it’s so tough x

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Pinkybaby

So sorry dear, I have been trying for 5years too. Got a bfn this morning although my OTD is Friday. I still hope for d best. Pls try and take time off with your partner in order to get relief. Xx

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Lou7744

I’m so sorry to read this. This journey sure does get tiring at times. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that Karina! I know how frustrating it is to get constant BFN's. I also got to the point where there were no tears, just felt empty! Hugs hugs, its really hard and very unfair!!xx

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Littleflower82

Sorry to read this Katrina, such a tough journey with a rollercoaster of emotions. Sending u loads of hugs 💔 xx

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Militarywife7

Sorry to hear this sweetheart, take good care of yourself xx

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Debrakay1704

Katrina, I am so sorry to hear this, have they given any answers or help? It is heartbreaking, lots of love and hugs. x

So sorry to hear this Katrina. It is so hard to go through this all the time. I knew I couldn't just keep trying the same things and getting the same results. We ended up being told we had 1% chance with or without ivf with my own eggs which is why we went for donor. Hopefully you get some answers. Big hugs xx

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Ash2016

So sorry lovely. Thinking of you xxx

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry to read this. I understand how difficult it is getting bfn’s round after round. You are an absolute trooper. Sending you huge hugs ❤️ Xx

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AS100

I’m so sorry it hasn’t work Katerina 😞 I hope you will get some useful info at follow up. (I know what you mean about expecting a bfn) sending you love and big hugs xxx

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry. Sending hugs xx

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Southeast28

I’m so sorry to hear this xxx

Really sorry to hear this x

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Hoping2019

Sorry to hear this been there and just had round 5 transfer. It’s definitely a tough ride but hope you take some time to recharge and build energy for next go X

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lilou3110

I'm so sorry it didn't work for you again. Get some rest and please find in your inner self the strength to try again. The road as a wonderful end for everyone of us. Sending you big hugs

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