*Sensitive *Rubbish day after cp/ miscarriage

[2018hopeful]

Hiya,

Having a rubbish day. Found out last Thursday we'd had a chemical pregnancy. Still trying to get my head around it. Feel numb. Blood loss started Saturday, heavy, was in agony. Then it tailed off. Had achy / tender stomach for 2 days, saw GP yesterday who said I now have infection and started me on 2 lots of antibiotics. Feel like it's one crap thing after another. Feel completely drained and achy. Trying to keep positive and keep busy. Went to hairdressers yesterday. Have already contacted local adoption agency, and they said I can go on an open day in August. Hubbys not great. My friend was supposed to come visit me this morning but cancelled as her baby kept her up all night. Don't really know why I'm posting. Just feel fed up. Should have been having our scan next Wednesday, just gutted we won't be having that now. Just feeling sorry for myself 😢 Hope you are all having a better time of it than me, good luck with your journey x x

[here-_to_get_support]

I'm so sorry, I'm sending you lots of strength and love x

[Lyn84]

I have had a chemical pregnancy and its awful as just as it starts to sink in your pregnant its taken away from you it took me a few months to feel normal again after. Its not an easy thing to get over in a hurry 😔

[2018hopeful in reply to Lyn84]

X x

[Hidden in reply to Lyn84]

It's so bloody cruel isn't it as one day you are pregnant and you dream of the future only to have it all snatched away in a cruel manner!

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear your having a crappy time I can’t relate, we’ve had a rubbish day mil died after 4 weeks finding out she had stomach cancer and with 3 mmc last one in Jan shit shit shitty shit year so far. We cant have anymore bad news only good 🙏🏼 hope you feel better xx

[2018hopeful in reply to Hidden]

Oh god! That's so awful! I'm so so sorry. You and your hubby have gone through so much, sending hugs to you x x

[Hidden in reply to 2018hopeful]

Hopefully we’ve had all the bad for the year and only good for the future x for u too xx

[2018hopeful in reply to Hidden]

X x x

[MissSaoPaulo in reply to Hidden]

I'm so sorry to see you lost your mother in law. What a tough time this has been for you all. Big hugs xxx

[Hidden in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Thank you, yeah was so quick!

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Im sorry to hear about your mother in law and it's always the way isn't it that it all goes wrong at the same time!

[Devj]

So sorry to hear you’re having a hard time. You both have really been through it, bless you. Sending huge hugs, although I know probably won’t help.

Hopefully things will pick up and August will soon come around to give you something to focus on xxx

[2018hopeful in reply to Devj]

Thank you x x

[MissSaoPaulo]

Sounds like you need a big hug. You're grieving and that makes it hard to take things in your stride as you normally would, so don't worry about feeling fed up and if you need to vent - go right ahead, it can help xxx

[2018hopeful in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Thank you x x

[Hidden]

Sending you lots of love and a massive hug - all the cliches apply it does get easier etc but be kind to yourself - you are going through a really tough sad time - so please do rant or cry if you have a bad day xx

[Novice_knitter]

Sorry hun, sending you lots of love and thinking of you. Not surprised that scan date is upsetting you xxx

[Hidden]

That's really shitty when that happens when you are looking forward to something and then it all gets snatched away as you build things up in your mind and when it's taken away it hurts as it shatters your dreams.