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Worst fears confirmed. 3rd cycle failure. Shuttered!

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OTD came & I knew it hadn't worked. I'm so torn apart and angry. What's wrong with me. I can't even face husband, he keeps apologising for the vasectomy he did before meeting me. I think the world is making fun of me as people around me are having kids like fruits. It's time to accept my fate and I think it's killing me softly. I am sooooo sad. Christmas will be a sad time.

Good luck to everyone on the 2ww and everyone who was lucky to get a BFP.

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So sorry to hear this, I'm sure your husband just wants to support you through this terrible time.

Sending you huge hugs xx

I’m so terribly sorry for your BFN. What a awful time of year too ☹️. Don’t give up tho you will get your wanted baby 🙂 As for Christmas just do what feels right for you both. Hold each tight right now you have each other & that counts for something ❤️. I hope 2019 is your year 🤞🏻✨💗 xoxo

Hi Stacia,

So sorry for your BFN, I too got a BFN this morning and feeling the same as you. Dont know how to keep picking myself up,don't even want to face Xmas.

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Anya80

I’m really sorry for what you are feeling now😥I hope you get some peace in time 😘😘😘

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to read this xx

So sorry. Xx

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Em2405

So sorry. Nothing takes the sting out of a BFN. Just feel how you feel and you can carry on. I am really sorry. Take care of each other. Xxx

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Cinderella5

Im really sorry Stacia, it is really heard especially at this time of year! Ive had 4 fails so far and it doesnt really get any easier unfortunately. Your hubby must be feeling incredibly guilty as we all blame ourselves at some point, even if its not anyones fault. Hold onto each other tightly. Sending hugs.xx

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Jenjen84

I’m so sorry.. Sending love xxxx

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