Follow up with consultant

[silverlini]

So we had our review with our consultant yesterday and it went well. He can't see any reason for the chemical apart from the fact it would have chromosome issues and wouldn't have ever been a viable pregnancy...very common apparently! I asked so many questions about whether we should have more tests, extra hormone support etc and he said we don't need to do any of that especially at this stage.

We have signed all the paperwork to start again in January! I feel like seeing him has sort of given me closure on the last cycle and I feel ready to go again!!

I am going to try and detox myself and get into a good routine on healthy eating and exercise again this month (December might be tricky with our birthdays and Christmas!!)

January cannot come around quick enough!

Thanks for reading ladies, much love xx

[genten]

Aww I'm glad the appointment went well.

Goodluck for your cycle in January xxx

[silverlini in reply to genten]

Thanks Genten!xx

[Lynnr54]

My clinic said exactly the same to me after my chemical. I was told that chemicals are really common, even in ladies with no fertility challenges, most don’t even know they’ve had them. I was sceptical, particularly after a BFN the following cycle, but then I got my BFP the cycle after that, so there really doesn’t appear to have been any obvious reason for it. Good luck with your cycle in Jan.

[silverlini in reply to Lynnr54]

Thank you! Yeah I never realised how common it is. Just Sod’s law it happens to us when we are so desperately trying every which way to have a baby! Hopefully it will work out for me next time. Congratulations on your BFP 😘

[Cinderella5]

Glad to hear all went well! All sounding very positive and you do too which is the most important thing of all!!xx

[silverlini in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you 😊 yeah definitely feeling more positive hopefully it will last!xx

[Masha111]

Hey silverlini. So happy you are focused on your next round and that you are feeling reassured after your apt. All the best for your cycle in Jan. Really praying 2019 will be the year for you xxx

[silverlini in reply to Masha111]

Thank you Masha! I really hope 2019 is my year! I hope all is going well for you xx

[jm22]

Hi silverlini, my consultant was very positive after our chemical and said we have a good chance with our next embryo because it means we can get pregnant,said the same as yours that it can just be a chromosome issue and they can't really tell before they transfer them back. I guess we just have to trust them, really hope u get ur bfp next time, good luck xox

[silverlini in reply to jm22]

Yeah that’s it, just got I trust in what they are saying! Sorry to hear about your chemical. Do you know when you will start again?xx

[jm22 in reply to silverlini]

We had letter last weekend to say we are top of waiting list,waiting for appointment letter to come so I'm guessing we will start before Christmas,pretty nervous,but like u I'm trying now to be healthier,my biggest problem is chocolate, couldn't give it up completely🙈January will come round in no time for you ☺xox

[silverlini in reply to jm22]

Oh good! I’m glad to hear! Shouldn’t be too long to get going again then. It is a nervous time but it’s also good to know there is hope and you’re working in the right direction.

Ahh see I love chocolate but I’ve given it up for this month! It’s wine for me 🙃 I love a nice glass of wine (or 2!) so I’m trying to limit myself now!xx

[Tugsgirl]

I’m glad you’re now feeling ready to carry on. Hopefully the new year will start off in the best possible way for you 🤞🏻 Don’t be too strict over Christmas and on your birthdays. Treat yourself in moderation xx

[silverlini in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you! I’m hoping it’s our year next year for sure! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 haha yeah I will be careful on the wine!xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to silverlini]

Be careful but make sure you have a glass or two! xx

[Mifkipi]

Good to hear that you're ready and decided to go for another cycle in January! Enjoy yourself this Christmas!

[silverlini in reply to Mifkipi]

Thank you 😘