It is over

[Eeek]

I had my transfer of two embryos last Tuesday. I think that makes today 9dpt5dt. I had no symptoms until yesterday afternoon. Then I had bloating, cramps, backache and some pink/brown spotting and a headache. Just knew it was over.

I woke up crying very early this morning, I dreamt of a man outside my parents house sing 'Everybody's talkin'. Nooo idea where that came from. Can't get it out my head now!

Anyway I did a test at 4.30am and it was a very clear negative. OTD is officially tomorrow. Feeling so so sad. X

[Hidden]

Hey it’s not over till OTD & full AF is here.

It could still change- they give a test day for a reason & if everyone’s pregnancy showed up earlier they’d give you that date.

The spotting could easily be implantation bleeding as it’s the same time as your period.

had no symptoms & even had what I thought was period cramping 3 days before my period was due & it was implantation cramps! They felt the same!!! Early pregnancy symptoms vs PMS are identical & difficult to tell apart ( I’ve never managed to on any of my 3 pregnancies)

Hang in there.

Fingers crossed that it’s a positive tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 xozo

[Eeek in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your kind words. Xx

[cryst4l]

Hey try not to stress as hard as it is. Your otd is tomorrow so its not over yet. Your symptoms could also be late implantation. Here if you want to talk.xx

[Beechnut1]

It's just so hard! The others are right it's not over until its over, but I know that feeling when you are wrestling with your gut instinct, go easy on yourself today and do some lovely things. Lots of love and best of luck xxxx

[Hidden]

I totally agree with the others. Here's hoping for your bfp tomorrow xx

[Cinderella5]

Its defo not over yet. I wouldnt want to give you false hope but my friend got a negative on day 9 and has a little girl now. Hang on in there, fingers crossed for you!xx

[Kempton]

It's not over until it's over! I had absolutely no symptoms and had written off my remaining FET as a failure. Today I'm a mother to a beautiful baby boy.

Try not to symptom spot and just try and keep your mind occupied. Keep positive! Good luck

[Tugsgirl]

Continue with any medications and test again tomorrow. Good luck xx

[chrissie_81]

Please please don't give up! Try and stay as calm as you can, you must distract your mind and try your hardest not to overthink and second guess...we really do not know the outcome until the OTD, no two women or two pregnancies are the same hun. Deep breaths and go and watch some silly comedy series or something to take your mind somewhere else! Best of luck tomorrow, stay positive! xx

[Eeek]

Thanks everyone, you are all so lovely 💕💕. I havent told any friends or family about going through this and I just needed tell someone this morning (other than my OH). Thanks for being there. X x x

[Hidden in reply to Eeek]

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow xx

[Dreamingofbaby]

Really hope it changes for u Hun 🤞🤞🤞. Here for u xx

[Dunla]

Thinking of you as you test again tomorrow xx