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Yep my period is here with a bang.

8dp5dt and I think it's safe to say it is over for this round.

10 months on from beginning this round, after having to stop and start it feels like some closure to this cycle. It has been such a tough one with unexpected A and E trips plus an ambulance ride. So much tougher than I ever imagined.

Calling clinic today to log day 1 of period in hope we can try another FET soon enough.

Gosh, what a year!

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So sorry its ended this way.

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genten

So so sorry for your bfn :( they are really awful, I had one last month.

Also sorry for the time it's taken, that must have been frustrating for you.

Good luck for your next steps. xxx

in reply to genten

Oh, I am sorry to hear this. It is harder than I thought :( Good luck with your next steps too. Thank you xx

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Foodie23

I’m really sorry to hear it didn’t work out for you this time. Especially after such a long, difficult process. Take time to grieve and care for yourself. You’ve been through a lot.

My heart goes out to you and I wish you comfort and peace as you move through your journey. Hugs Xx

in reply to Foodie23

Thank you so much, I kind of knew in my gut but seeing closure just makes it so real. Will definitely take some time this weekend with husband this weekend for each other xx

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CJem18

Sorry for your bfn x

I’m so sorry & wish you good luck for your FET. I have heard they are more successful as there is less stress on the body xoxo

in reply to

Thank you, yes I think I will do another natural FET next time too unless they think medicated would be best. But I am sure it will be ok... Thanks again xx

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Cinderella5

Aww Im really sorry! Its truly rubbish when this happens, BFN's are hard but you sound positive that you're already thinking of the next steps. Treat yourselves to something nice meantime and be kind to yourselves.xx

in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you. Husband said we will do a date night on Friday and then next steps with clinic Monday, so going to take this weekend as us time and get ready to start again xxx

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Kari55

Sending hugs xx

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silverlini

Sorry to hear this 😔 it really is a tough journey. The emotional side is even worse! Rest up xxx

Im sorry it's a negative after such a long journey, take care xxx

So sorry to hear this hun! :( Keep positive and take care of yourself for next time 😘😘😘 xxxxxxx

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Dunla

I’m sorry to hear it hasn’t worked for you this time round. Take good care of yourself and very best wishes for what comes next xx

☹️

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Tugsgirl

I’m sorry. It’s so harsh. Good luck for your fet, when you’re good and ready xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you. Also, not 100% sure on what happened, but happy to read you are back and sticking around <3

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Masha111

Sorry to hear things didnt work out and for what you have gone through. It must be awful. All the very best in your next round (when you are ready). I hope all the women and their other halfs have their bfp soon and have their dreams of be becoming parents come true, to see their little ones in their arms. Its good that you havent lost hope.... It will happen (when you least expect it) lots of love and best wishes xxx

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ShinyStar

So sorry to hear xxx

I hope, one day, you’ll have the strength to try again xxx

💕

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