Worry too much my syptoms when I got pregnant

[Challotte321]

Hi, this is my second transfer embryo. I was 34 years old. I try to talk my first transfer embryo was failure. I am pregnant and I had my first scan today. It is seven weeks and five days. I thought it was six weeks. After transfer one week. I had little blood and felt so scared. I read a lot of syptoms information from the website and called the nurse who said was fine. Just keep going to look after the thirteen days test. I got pregnant but I still got little blood few times and have two weeks rest on the bed most of time. At the fourth week after transfer my belly felt crampy, toilet six, seven times a day and vomiting. I felt so scared. Every day waited for the first scan to look if everything was fine. Today I went to do my first scan. The nurse said it was good and I felt better. The nurse told me I need to do the second scan on the eleventh to thirteen week to mesure the baby's neck. I worry again. It is not easy because always think about the baby's health. I try to talk about my first transfer was failure. I thought maybe because I went to climb the hill after the fourth day transfer and think about my study and homework too much presure. I was very blame myself for this. And the second time after transfer I just stay on the bed for 24 hours only eat, walk a little bit in the house and the garden. The second day I do the often cooking but most time was lied down on the bed the first three days. Every one the body is different I just tried what I felt comfortable and relax and always ask the doctor when not sure and worries. I hope everything will be good in the future for the baby. Hope he/she understand we love him/her forever.

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A You are going through such roller coaster emotions at the moment. I hope everything goes well at the next stages. Bug hugs xxx

[Tugsgirl]

All sounds good so far. Hopefully you’ll feel more relaxed after the next scan. Congratulations xx

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

Try to hold on to the fact that everything was ok on this scan. The waiting is hard but you sound like you are doing everything right. You’re going to be a great mum. X

[Challotte321]

Thanks for everyone's concern! I am so emotional for this but I feel better and think everything is positive now. The mood is important. My English not good enough. I am sorry I can't express all.

[Billywhizz10]

If you go through the pain of IVF and have failures, when it finally works, its hard to believe its going to work. My wife is 31 weeks, and I can honestly say the first 21 weeks were a nightmare of worry, expecting a miscarriage with every spot of blood, cramp or twinge.

You will get through it, just take each week as it comes, each week is that step closer to your beautiful baby, once they have a heartbeat at 7 weeks the VAST majority of pregnancies are healthy, so try and stay positive, don't be like us and worried all the time.

Best

x

[Billywhizz10 in reply to Billywhizz10]

This website was a comfort to us, it shows even at 7 weeks, you're already 90%+ chance of having a healthy baby.

expectingscience.com/2015/0...

[Challotte321 in reply to Billywhizz10]

Congratulations to you! Thanks for your information. It is useful to me. I will calm down, relax and stay positive. I work part time to spend my time.

[Billywhizz10 in reply to Challotte321]

Congratulations to you too!! I work from home, so I used to spend SO MUCH time online worrying about what can go wrong, but remember its very normal!!

xxx

[Challotte321 in reply to Billywhizz10]

Hi Billywhizz10, i have long time not run this website. I thought your baby should be born. How are you and your baby? I am 22weeks now. The time goes fast. It is exciting to wait for the baby will be born next year.

I hope all the best for your family and your baby.

[Billywhizz10 in reply to Challotte321]

Hi! Hope you're well. Yes, she's a month old and healthy, getting used to the late nights, nappies and this little person in our lives, but we love her very much and everything is so worth it!

The time will fly by now, and soon you'll have your baby causing mayhem in her home! I'm positive you'll have a nice quiet pregnancy and a peaceful birth to your new baby !

xxx

[Challotte321 in reply to Billywhizz10]

Hi, sorry for long time didn't run this wesite. Yes, I am 34 weeks now. It is a girl and will come to our home after one and half month. I almost stock everything now. Only few stuffs buy next two weeks. It will be busy day in next time. Hope you and your family have wonderful time.

[Billywhizz10 in reply to Challotte321]

Great news, so happy for you! Not long now before you're holding your baby !

[Autumnmoon]

Glad all looks good for you try to relax as much as possible it is hard I know x

[Anya80]

Hi, all sounds familiar to my emotion at the moment, one side of me wanted to be Happy relaxed cheerful, but other side always stops me cautiously with what if thought ...im full of mixed emotion at the moment but wanted so much to enjoy this pregnancy hopefully i will.

I wish you peaceful time now, sounds all is good with your baby. it’s natural to worry I guess but hopefully it’s all on perfect way to deliver healthy bubba, fx for that 💝

[Challotte321 in reply to Anya80]

Thanks. I am 34 weeks now. I am so excited for next few weeks from now on. Good luck to you and you baby!