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12dp5dt, feeling anxious and scared to test

Hi,

Due to test on Wednesday, I'm feeling completely anxious now. At least at the moment I'm thinking, I could be pregnant, dreading the test cos it it could shatter my dreams. Feeling so much pressure from myself, I'm gonna let down so many people if this is a negative. I've been off sick 2 weeks from work, had colleagues messaging me, mum asking me about every symptom, and my hubby is just very laid back about it. Just want to stay in my bubble. Not sure how I'll cope with a negative. I have one more chance on the NHS which is lucky, just this 2ww is awful x x

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Hang on in there. Enjoy your current PUPO status. It is so so hard isn't it. Keep telling yourself over and over that you are pregnant and it has worked this time. Imagine the little egg nestling into your womb.

Wishing you every luck for Wednesday xxx

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Yep the 2ww officially sucks! I know what you mean about staying in the bubble, so scary! Best of luck for test day, hopefully you get good news!xx

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You’ve done so well to get this far, just take a deep breath and before you know it test day will be here. Don’t worry about anyone else apart from yourself, do something to take your mind off it all. I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you. x

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Almost there hun fingers crossed for you! 🤞🤞😘

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Thanks everyone x

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I feel the same, my test day is Thursday , been tempted to rest early but couldn’t take the negative so going to sit tight till Thursday and positive xx

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I haven't been tempted, and haven't even got a test yet, so can't do 1. My feeling at the moment is ignorance is bliss. Feeling very low today and had a few cramps now this afternoon. Dreading wednesday, and the disappointment if it's negative. Yes sit tight toll your official test date, hopefully we'll all get the results we want x x

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I’ll be thinking of you Wednesday and hope for a positive 😘 x

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Thankyou, good luck for Thursday x

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The tww is awful. Never gets any easier either 😕 You’ve done so well. Good luck for otd xx

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The 2ww is so hard, you’ve done really well not to crack and test already. Wishing you lots and lots of luck for tomorrow and be kind to yourself, you are not going to let anyone down no matter what the outcome 💗

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Hope tomorrow is a good day 🙏🏻❤️

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Good luck for tomorrow. Hoping it’s a great outcome for you. Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏼 xx

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You have done so well to get this far and to have not tested. Good luck xxx

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