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D&C scheduled for tomorrow morning. Reality of what is happening is setting in :(

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I discovered last week when we went in for my 7 week scan that it was a blighted ovum, a perfectly formed placenta but no embryo. What we thought was going to be our first time hearing our baby's heart beat ended in heart break, we were not prepared for this outcome at all as my HCG levels were exceptionally high.

I've spent the last week still experiencing morning sickness which is horrible especially knowing the outcome of the situation. Tomorrow morning (AU time) I will be going in for the D&C which will be good for closure but also difficult.

I've always been the tough and stoic one but this pain and heart break I'm feeling is at a completely different level. I'm sorry for this soppy post but on here I can be completely raw and honest and know that unfortunately I am surrounded by women who know how I am feeling.

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Barbara1012

Hey, I am so sorry to hear your news. Sending hugs. Will be thinking of you tomorrow xx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Barbara1012

Thank you Barbara xx

Sending you lots of love and strength 😘 been there 6 times and had 3 Erpcs so the shock and devastation is all too familiar. Take your time to grieve but treat yourself too!! I promise it will get easier and you will get stronger! 😘xxx

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Hi Natalia I'm sorry to hear that you have been through this so many times, thank you for your kind words xx

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Cinderella5

Oh honey, just so devastating!! Thinking of you!!xxx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks lovely xx

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Melissa11

How devastating for you, my thoughts are with you, 💕💕

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ChristineB05 in reply to Melissa11

Thanks Melissa xx

Sorry to hear your news it is an awful experience I’ve just mc naturally at 12w for the 2nd time. I totally feel different about getting pregnant again.

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ChristineB05 in reply to

I'm so sorry to hear that, thank you for your kind words xx

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Tugsgirl

I’ve been there with a D and C after a missed miscarriage and then after my next one I had medical management. I’m always so sorry for anyone having to go through this as I know how devastating it is. Thinking of you xx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thanks for your kind words lovely and I'm sorry to hear that you have been through this xx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, it truly is heartbreaking!! 💔 I’ve been there with a 10wk MMC and now a chemical!! Look after yourself & one day at a time!! xx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Leo2017

Thanks lovely for your kind words and sorry to hear that you have been through this xx

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Mrsplant

So sorry to hear this.. it really isnt nice.. i had a missed misscariage so i had all the signs of being preg but lost the twins at 11weeks

Make sure u have lots of rest after ur D and C xx

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Poppy16

Feel so sad reading your post. Really sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you tomorrow. I have had 2 D and C's in the past so can identify with you. Hope you are getting and will continue to get the support that you need now and in days to come. Such a devastating and painful time for you. Just take one day at a time and don't bottle up your feelings. You will survive this. I lost for the third time in March 2017. In May of this year I gave birth to a little boy. Don't give up on this journey. Take care. Sending you a hug. I am here if you need a chat.xo

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ChristineB05 in reply to Poppy16

Thanks lovely your kind words and support however most importantly sharing your story of hope xx

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Wishfully

I hope all goes ok for you today xx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Wishfully

Thanks lovely xx

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CC2018

So sorry for your loss. Hope everything goes okay xx

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ChristineB05 in reply to CC2018

Thanks lovely, I've been in this morning (AU time) and back home. I'm glad this day is now over xx

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Missy_22

I feel your pain I really do. I’m so sorry. Take care and look after yourself xxxx

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ChristineB05 in reply to Missy_22

Thanks Missy for your kind words xx

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Steph254

Tight tight hugs ❤️❤️

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ChristineB05 in reply to Steph254

Thanks Steph xx

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