Bit of a long post sorry 😐
Hi all, as some of you may seen my post last week with the failed Ivf, I have a n appointment with the consultant on 27th July. I have questions but I’m trying to think of the real important ones, with having 2 good grade blastocysts last time, I can’t help but think ‘is it because I can’t carry a child?’etc. What tests are done for this and all the others that go with it? Before considering paying for a round privately I want to know all that can be done, it’s not like we have the ££££’s to spend and not get a good outcome at the end of it. I would do anything and if it means we do have a chance I will happily get a loan or credit card.
Me and the hubby have considered the other options like adopting, donor sperm/eggs etc, we haven’t talked about surrogacy because we don’t know how that bit works, ie do you have someone that you know to carry your child or a stranger etc. We have said that things could change a year down the line and we might want to adopt, you just can’t tell. He did however say that he didn’t want me to be unhappy and if it got to the point of us arguing that he wouldn’t blame me for wanting to find another man 😢😢😢, he didn’t say it in a bad way at all, he just wants me to be happy and I most certainly wouldn’t leave him but I don’t know if I would regret things years to come. I just can’t tell. If only we could have a magic mirror!!
It’s so hard 😢😢😢
Advice will be much appreciated from you brave ladies 😘😘😘 xx